Being in it...thoughts on the nervous system and steadiness, meditate together tonight!
Hello all! We will meet right here at 7:30pm this evening for meditation and a settling into what is here now. I look forward to sharing the time and space with you. Since this space is dedicated to cultivating steadiness, I wanted to share some thoughts that may (or may not!) be useful for us.... Let's talk about our nervous systems! Our nervous system is our body’s real-time survival manager. In stress, it’s not “overreacting”—it’s trying to protect us. It's a smarty! 1. It scans for danger (automatically) Our brain and body are constantly asking: “Am I safe?” This happens below conscious awareness. 2. It picks a response (in milliseconds) If it senses danger → it activates survival mode: - Fight / Flight (Sympathetic nervous system) - Heart rate increases - Breathing gets faster/shallow - Muscles tighten - Digestion slows - Mind speeds up (alert, anxious, reactive) WHY??? Get us out of danger fast 3. If stress feels overwhelming → it shifts again - Freeze / Shutdown (Dorsal vagal response) - Low energy, heavy, numb - Brain fogDisconnected / “checked out” - Body may feel collapsed WHY??? Protect us when escape feels impossible 4. When safe → it restores balance - Rest & Digest (Parasympathetic / ventral vagal) - Heart rate slows - Breathing deepens - Digestion resumes - We feel calm, connected, clear WHY??? So we can heal, recover, connect Why this matters (practically) Stress symptoms aren’t random—they’re state-dependent: - If we feel anxious → our system thinks we need to move - If we feel exhausted/numb → our system thinks we need to shut down - If we fell calm → our system feels safe We don’t “fix” stress by thinking our way out. We shift our nervous system state. Simple ways to do this: - Slow, longer exhales - Gentle movement (walking, shaking, yoga) - Warmth (tea, shower, sunlight) - Connection (eye contact, safe conversation)