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Welcome to The Men's Wellness Club! Introduce Yourself...
I’m a YouTuber and content creator with one simple goal — to build a healthy, judgment-free space for like-minded people who want to build confidence, improve their lives, and make genuine connections.
I started this community because, growing up, no one ever taught us how to make new friends or handle social situations. We were just thrown into them...
That’s like performing on stage before you’ve ever learned how to play an instrument.
From a young age, I dreamed of being a public figure and inspiring others so...
Over eight years ago, while still in school, I started my first YouTube channel. I posted videos showing my face online and instantly became a joke.
People laughed, occasionally made fun of me and shared my videos in class for everyone to see...
But I didn’t stop. Week after week, I kept posting — no matter what people said, no matter how many laughed.
Eventually, my channel grew to 10,000 subscribers. And suddenly, those same people stopped laughing.. Ironic right? Haha!
By 19, though, I went through a tough breakup that left my mental and physical health — and my confidence — at an all-time low...
All that progress felt like it had disappeared overnight.
I stopped creating. I doubted myself. I even started believing that posting videos was “cringe.”
So, I stepped away and got a job in social media as a Multimedia Journalist.
I interviewed people in real life, presented for huge UK brands, and created videos for the country’s biggest news publisher, Reach PLC.
I loved that job. But behind all that external confidence… I was still quite lonely.
I had no real support. No one to look up to. No one keeping me accountable. When I searched for advice online, all I found was toxic, ego-driven content — and that’s not who I wanted to be.
I wanted to become a good man — someone with a pure heart, who trains hard, inspires others, and makes people’s lives better.
and I tried everything to fill that void...
Going out drinking every weekend.
“Going ghost.”
The “winter arc.”
But nothing fixed what was missing inside.
Then a friend introduced me to someone — and that person ended up becoming my girlfriend.We’ve now been together for over two and a half years, and she honestly helped me rebuild myself when I was at my lowest.
However, just a few months into our relationship, she asked me one night:
“Why don’t you post on social media anymore?”
I said: “I don’t know… I just don’t want to.” (The truth is I did. I just lost the confidence.)
She looked at me and said: “You know that’s one of the biggest reasons I fell in love with you?”
“You’re different. You’re not afraid to fail. You don’t care what people think. You put yourself out there — and that’s what makes you you.”
That moment changed everything...
I realized I’d been chasing confidence by pretending to be someone else — instead of learning to love the person I already was.
Since then, my external and internal confidence have grown so much that I'm quickly becoming the person I've always truly wanted to be.
and that’s exactly why I built this community.
I want to create a space that I wish I had growing up.
A place to improve our lives, ask for advice, and gain our confidence back TOGETHER because the self improvement journey can be a lonely one...
Let’s build The Men's Wellness Club. I can't wait to meet you all💬
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