Advice for approaching a crush
So I met a girl in my school during an event called English Camp. Basically it's a one day tutoring camp for students, and I'm not from an English speaking country. Since I'm a senior and the leader of English Club in my school, I've got the role of a tutor for one group. And there was when I meet her.
Long story short I've texted with her a few times over the last 2 weeks, took some pictures with her during yearbook picture days (two days actually, so I got twice back-to-back).
The thing is that most people who are not the same year with me (teachers, my juniors, my seniors) think that I'm an extrovert and very social. The secret is that I'm introvert and have so much social anxiety (It's getting better but I still overthink too much). So I think they'd expect me to be more confident and upfront.
So I want to know like how do I approach her in person? Like if she's around with her friends (who are also my friends apparently), should I just jump in their group and talk with them, or should I talk to her specifically? Another question is I mentioned about liking poetry, and have been thinking of writing one for her (and Tom mentioned that girls would love it so why not), should I give it to her, given it's only been like two weeks? (It's not something too much like 'I love you' kind of poem, more like 'I kinda admire you' kind).
And wow that's a long first post xD
Thanks in advance for reading this!
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Advice for approaching a crush
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