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Missing people!
Totally normal until you forget about what you were actually doing. You keep forgetting your daily tasks and routine, and what your mother said to you.
It’s all normal unless you behave like an abnormal person.
But you know what, my friend? I sometimes do that too, and I agree everyone agrees that it’s a very common thing.
But as long as it’s in your hands, you can choose how you’re going to manage your time. And if you are busy, then you should focus on your work, not the person you are missing. If you keep mixing these things, then you’ll mess things up.
It’s not advice, because it’s something we all need to understand.
It’s important for me too, because I’m also a person who misses my beloved ones.
And sometimes it’s so hard to reach them because they aren’t even alive.
So, my dear friend, I know life gets so hard and lonely when you lose someone, when you break up, your friend leaves the country, etc.
I know it’s so hard that you can’t swallow your food and can’t drink even a sip of water, but that doesn’t mean you’ll stop eating and drinking, nah!
Nope, my buddy. There is a saying in Afghanistan, "zindagi migzara", which means life goes on.
The same thing my father always tells me: no matter who comes into your life or who goes, your life will remain the same.
Just small, very little differences, and nothing else.
You’ll soon find relief. Just miss someone enough to remember them, not to ruin yourself in the process.
And my dear friend, one day you’ll be able to replace them, InshaAllah. Or if they’re dead, you’ll soon meet them in Barzakh (afterlife).
So live your life with that mentality, and don’t be too heartbroken. We understand you. 🫂
Allahumma barik 🤍
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