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Kids vs Stepkids and needing advice
This day has been trying to say the least. A disagreement accured between myself and my wife, ove the same thing, my kids and my stepkids (her kids). It's the same topic for just about every disagreement or argument. Here is a breakdown of what happened. One of my step daughters will be moving back home after she finishes her studies at her university. She and her girlfriend are moving in. That is fine. The will be paying $1500 a month for the bedroom, all utilities, food, use of the home and yard ( we have a pool). There bedroom is located upstairs, where my office/music room is also located. My wife thinks for the $1500 they should also have my office/music room. My opinion (and it's not changing it) is "nope". I agreed to clean out a few drawers and cabinets under the wet bar, should they need some extra space for storage. This lead to the beginning of the argument. Then I was told that if it were my kids, I'd be fine to give up the space. I explained to my wife that her statement isn't correct, I would give up my office to my kids. This brought up continued disagreement on the topic., I'm just so tired of being told that I prioritize my kids over hers. This isn't the case. I told my wife that I'm not giving up my space to anyone. But of course, she tells me that I would. Which pissed me off. I calmly told her that her statement was incorrect. When I suggested she give up her office to the girls, I was then told that I was changing the topic. Sorry to vent, I'm just frustrated and dealing with the fallout of a oissed off wife. I hope this made sense. I'm just annoyed that this topic brings about so much aggravation and frustration. I'm not sure how to handle the same topic without the disagreements. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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