Welcome to the Proactive Parent Community. Take a breath. You’re safe here. Before you explore everything, I want to give you a simple path so you don’t feel overwhelmed. Below, you’ll find four short posts and one graphic to accompany each. Most parents read one per day. Some read all four at once. There’s no pressure. Move at the pace that matches your emotional energy. Let’s begin. POST 1 - Welcome Home Parenting feels easier when you understand your child’s personality. This community exists to help you: • create more peace at home • communicate with less conflict • understand your child’s wiring • break generational cycles through awareness • feel more confident and connected as a parent You don’t have to be perfect here. You only have to be present. Inside this space, you’ll receive: • daily micro-wins • simple scripts • tools that reduce conflict • stories that build empathy • a community that understands Start by reminding yourself: Your child isn’t broken. You’re not a bad parent. You just need a map. - POST 2 - How This Community Works To avoid overwhelm, here’s the simple structure: Daily Micro-Wins Short, practical insights you can use today. Ask for Help A judgment-free zone to share struggles and get support. Parenting by Personality Insights into the four child temperaments. Workshops & Live Calls Where real transformation happens through stories and guidance. Resource Library Your PDFs, guides, and tools. Each channel serves a purpose. Everything here is designed to reduce stress and increase clarity. - POST 3 - Your Transformation Roadmap You’re not here for random advice. You’re here for predictable growth. Here’s the path inside this community: Stage 1: Survival Parenting Reactive, overwhelmed, confused. Behavior feels personal. Stage 2: Personality Parenting You begin seeing patterns. Communication gets easier. Stage 3: Proactive Parenting You anticipate conflicts before they happen. You know what your child needs. Stage 4: Leadership Parenting

Welcome to the Proactive Parent Community. We’re glad you’re here. This is a space for parents who want less stress, more connection, and a clearer path forward - without repeating the same generational mistakes they grew up with. You don’t have to be perfect to belong here. You only have to be honest. Take a minute to introduce yourself when you’re ready. It doesn’t have to be long. Just real. Here are a few prompts to make it easy: • What’s your name and where are you from? • What stage of parenting are you in (toddlers, elementary, or preparing for the future)? • What made you decide to join this community? • What’s one parenting challenge you’d love support with right now? Optional Icebreaker If your child was in charge of dinner every night, what would you be eating on repeat? Share as much or as little as you want. This is the easiest way to break the ice, feel seen, and connect with parents who get it. How to get the most out of this post: The more you participate, the more connection you’ll feel. And yes, this is one of those places where you earn participation points and unlock rewards. After you introduce yourself, you can explore: 👉 Our Calendar - join the next live session 👉 The Classroom - lessons, resources, and replays We’re excited to learn your story and walk this journey with you. Welcome home.

I'm creating a quick tool to help you calm your kid in those emotional meltdown moments, without yelling, bribing, or shutting them down. I've listened to multiple parents over the years and I'm convinced that most people say what their parents said to them. But haven't considered just how unique and different their child. Maybe the problem isn't that your kids don't listen, maybe the real problem is that you're not speaking in a language they understand. Think back to your own childhood. How often did your parents speak to you inefficiently? How many misunderstandings have you had with them. If you're childhood was anything like mine, I can almost guarantee that many of your family misunderstandings can be traced back to miscommunication. That's why I'm creating "Say This Not That", 16 proven phrases to calm your child in 60 seconds or less. I'm not a psychologist, but I know enough about psychology to have high confidence that these phrases would work for your child, because these phrases are tailored to your child's unique personality. But I need your help to prove it. So I'll make you a deal. If you volunteer to test these out for 2 weeks, I'll give them to you for free in exchange for your testimonial. Leave a comment below: 1. Which image do you like better: Option A (white) or Option B (gray)? 2. Say “I’m in” if you want to be a tester! Thanks for helping me make this better for parents like you.

Greetings Proactive Parents, I want to take a moment to congratulate @Janice Lloyd-Bailey and @Thandeka Mndawe for reaching the Level 2 Growing Parent Badge. This is a milestone that shows dedication, growth, and a commitment to parenting with intention. Your kids will benefit from your efforts and humility. They've also unlocked The Raising Ready Kids course along with powerful bonuses to help you prepare kids for any obstacles life throws at them. Access your course in the Classroom or tap this link: [Raising Ready Kids Link] Remember, you can't protect them from everything, but you can prepare them for anything. That's the foundation of Proactive Parenting.

Tap here to watch the replay for Day 2 [Day-2 Replay] Tap here to register for Day 3 [Save Your Seat For Day-3] Don't have time to read this long post? [Listen To It Instead] Greetings Proactive Parents, I want to address some conflict that came up during last night’s workshop. And let me preface it by saying this... This message is not directed at any person in particular. This is a hypothetical scenario. You didn’t go through the drive-thru. You didn’t order no coffee. And your daughter didn’t ask for a cookie. So nobody take this personally, this is a hypothetical scenario NOW LET'S GET INTO IT A mother goes through the drive-thru and orders herself a coffee. The daughter says, “Mom, can I have a cookie?” And the mother replies, “No — we’ve got cookies at home.” And the daughters reply was "Well, we got coffee at home" Now we're at a crossroads. Imagine you're in this scenario. Are you gonna show your child humility or hypocrisy? Because the daughter’s not wrong — there is coffee at home. So why can Mom buy coffee, but she can’t have a cookie? Somebody might say: “I’m teaching my child to be financially responsible — we don’t need to buy cookies when we already got cookies at home.” Somebody else might say: “I just didn’t feel like making coffee today. We’re already out, so I’ll grab a coffee while were here That's a fair point, but if the real lesson is financial responsibility. You tell me: how financially responsible is it to spend money at the drive-thru when you already got coffee at home? This is when it's time to look in the mirror. We say we want to teach responsibility, but sometimes we not showing responsibility we showing convenience. So again, are you going to be humble or are you going to hypocrite? Are you gonna say: “You know what, you’re right — we do have coffee at home. Let me get you that cookie.”