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Make everyday parenting easier by understanding your child’s personality instead of relying on trial & error.

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21 contributions to The Proactive Parent Community
YOUR ORIENTATION PATH (Start Here)
Welcome to the Proactive Parent Community. Take a breath. You’re safe here. Before you explore everything, I want to give you a simple path so you don’t feel overwhelmed. Below, you’ll find four short posts and one graphic to accompany each. Most parents read one per day. Some read all four at once. There’s no pressure. Move at the pace that matches your emotional energy. Let’s begin. POST 1 - Welcome Home Parenting feels easier when you understand your child’s personality. This community exists to help you: • create more peace at home • communicate with less conflict • understand your child’s wiring • break generational cycles through awareness • feel more confident and connected as a parent You don’t have to be perfect here. You only have to be present. Inside this space, you’ll receive: • daily micro-wins • simple scripts • tools that reduce conflict • stories that build empathy • a community that understands Start by reminding yourself: Your child isn’t broken. You’re not a bad parent. You just need a map. - POST 2 - How This Community Works To avoid overwhelm, here’s the simple structure: Daily Micro-Wins Short, practical insights you can use today. Ask for Help A judgment-free zone to share struggles and get support. Parenting by Personality Insights into the four child temperaments. Workshops & Live Calls Where real transformation happens through stories and guidance. Resource Library Your PDFs, guides, and tools. Each channel serves a purpose. Everything here is designed to reduce stress and increase clarity. - POST 3 - Your Transformation Roadmap You’re not here for random advice. You’re here for predictable growth. Here’s the path inside this community: Stage 1: Survival Parenting Reactive, overwhelmed, confused. Behavior feels personal. Stage 2: Personality Parenting You begin seeing patterns. Communication gets easier. Stage 3: Proactive Parenting You anticipate conflicts before they happen. You know what your child needs. Stage 4: Leadership Parenting
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YOUR ORIENTATION PATH (Start Here)
INTRODUCE YOURSELF HERE
Welcome to the Proactive Parent Community. We’re glad you’re here. This is a space for parents who want less stress, more connection, and a clearer path forward - without repeating the same generational mistakes they grew up with. You don’t have to be perfect to belong here. You only have to be honest. Take a minute to introduce yourself when you’re ready. It doesn’t have to be long. Just real. Here are a few prompts to make it easy: • What’s your name and where are you from? • What stage of parenting are you in (toddlers, elementary, or preparing for the future)? • What made you decide to join this community? • What’s one parenting challenge you’d love support with right now? Optional Icebreaker If your child was in charge of dinner every night, what would you be eating on repeat? Share as much or as little as you want. This is the easiest way to break the ice, feel seen, and connect with parents who get it. How to get the most out of this post: The more you participate, the more connection you’ll feel. And yes, this is one of those places where you earn participation points and unlock rewards. After you introduce yourself, you can explore: 👉 Our Calendar - join the next live session 👉 The Classroom - lessons, resources, and replays We’re excited to learn your story and walk this journey with you. Welcome home.
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@Reginald Berry Greetings brother, welcome to the community. It's good to see that we have more father's joining the discussion like yourself. I love pizza and Popeye's too lol
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@Boitshepo Rakgoadi Greeting sister. It makes me smile to see you being a loving support for your sister and nephews. They're blessed to have you.
Congratulations!
Greetings Proactive Parents, I want to take a moment to congratulate @Janice Lloyd-Bailey and @Thandeka Mndawe for reaching the Level 2 Growing Parent Badge. This is a milestone that shows dedication, growth, and a commitment to parenting with intention. Your kids will benefit from your efforts and humility. They've also unlocked The Raising Ready Kids course along with powerful bonuses to help you prepare kids for any obstacles life throws at them. Access your course in the Classroom or tap this link: [Raising Ready Kids Link] Remember, you can't protect them from everything, but you can prepare them for anything. That's the foundation of Proactive Parenting.
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Tap here to watch the replay for Day 2 [Day-2 Replay] Tap here to register for Day 3 [Save Your Seat For Day-3] Don't have time to read this long post? [Listen To It Instead] Greetings Proactive Parents, I want to address some conflict that came up during last night’s workshop. And let me preface it by saying this... This message is not directed at any person in particular. This is a hypothetical scenario. You didn’t go through the drive-thru. You didn’t order no coffee. And your daughter didn’t ask for a cookie. So nobody take this personally, this is a hypothetical scenario NOW LET'S GET INTO IT A mother goes through the drive-thru and orders herself a coffee. The daughter says, “Mom, can I have a cookie?” And the mother replies, “No — we’ve got cookies at home.” And the daughters reply was "Well, we got coffee at home" Now we're at a crossroads. Imagine you're in this scenario. Are you gonna show your child humility or hypocrisy? Because the daughter’s not wrong — there is coffee at home. So why can Mom buy coffee, but she can’t have a cookie? Somebody might say: “I’m teaching my child to be financially responsible — we don’t need to buy cookies when we already got cookies at home.” Somebody else might say: “I just didn’t feel like making coffee today. We’re already out, so I’ll grab a coffee while were here That's a fair point, but if the real lesson is financial responsibility. You tell me: how financially responsible is it to spend money at the drive-thru when you already got coffee at home? This is when it's time to look in the mirror. We say we want to teach responsibility, but sometimes we not showing responsibility we showing convenience. So again, are you going to be humble or are you going to hypocrite? Are you gonna say: “You know what, you’re right — we do have coffee at home. Let me get you that cookie.”
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@Thandeka Mndawe Again, amen!
We go LIVE tonight at 7pmEST (Audio Email)
If you don’t have the brainpower to read another long post today… I got you. Hit play and listen to this one instead. [PLAY] We go LIVE tonight at 7 PM EST [SAVE YOUR SEAT NOW] I don’t know about you, but my parents never really explained why their rules existed, they just expected me to obey. “Because I said so” was the answer to many things. And for a while, that worked… until life started asking questions they never taught me how to answer. After speaking with many parents from all walks of life, I’ve noticed something interesting. Many of them are unknowingly repeating the same patterns their own parents did - some helpful, some harmful. The real challenge is, most parents don’t take the time to self-reflect. Not because they don’t care, but because they’re exhausted, overextended, and doing the best they can with what they know. That’s exactly why I’m hosting Raising Ready Kids, a live interactive workshop designed to help parents slow down, self-reflect, and see what’s really shaping their child’s growth. You’ll learn how to turn everyday moments into teachable ones, and discover how self-awareness can become your child’s greatest inheritance. Imagine how different your life would be if your parents had explained why instead of saying, “Because I said so.” Imagine how many tough lessons you could have learned through their guidance, instead of through trial and error. And I bet some of those errors still hurt til this day. Now imagine how much better off your children will be once you become the kind of parent who explains, reflects, and models the lessons life is trying to teach. This is your chance to break the cycle and raise a child who’s ready for anything life throws their way. I’d love for you to be part of this live workshop where we’ll explore how self-awareness turns everyday moments into lasting lessons. We go LIVE tonight at 7 PM EST - save your seat here → Ready.DevinTrent.com
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@Thandeka Mndawe Amen sister! Amen. Your sons are blessed to have a humble mother.
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Devin Trent
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Storyteller & Conversationalist, here to support parents on their journey to raising ready kids.

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