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I’ve Fallen
30 days or 90 days the time frame is not important; wether you relapsed after 90 days or after three days what matters is that each time you are becoming stronger and assuring that the next strike you won’t make the same mistakes so you don’t fall. Im sure we can all make it to 90 days if we are strong enough mentally but if your heart is still set on your disordered desire and you have not healed no matter how long you retain you will once more fall short. What matters is the mindset of getting out of this poison and not simply aiming to retain for 30 days leaving your subconscious open to the idea of relapsing on day 31st. Instead take it day by day and focus on completing each day with stronger awareness and make sure you are journaling your journey. If you fall don’t be so hard on yourself but yet journal a strategy on how not to commit the same faults again that led to your relapse. My advice forget about the length of retention and align your priorities and heal your heart from all of that perversion. I relapsed on the 5th of December and out of impulse I relapsed continuously eventually I tried to distract myself with drinking alcohol which I haven’t been drinking for over a month or two or smoking marijuana for way longer as well. I was weak and you must be strong there are many people depending on you and not just your loved ones your friends who also struggle with their poison. Be an inspiration don’t be another stepping stone and pray.
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