We use this template at home to divide up the household tasks and mental responsibilities. The owner of the domain has ownership from start to finish. If something falls short, the consequences fall on the owner. You can ask for help with your domain within reason. For kids' tasks, they get one reminder consequence free, second and third reminders come with consequences. This has been working really well in our home, particularly for ensuring that all the mental load doesn't fall solely to me. Try it out with your family. Change the domains and tasks to suit your family.

Our home exists to be a place of enveloping love, warmth, and safety. When the world feels loud, fast or uncertain, our home slows things down. It absorbs stress rather than spreading it. We value connection over perfection. People matter more than productivity. How we feel together matters more than how things look. Food in our home is nourishment and comfort. We aim for simple, wholesome meals that support our bodies and bring us together. We grow, make, and learn what we can - not to be perfect, but to be resilient. Our home is a place where: - Music matters - Rest is allowed - Laugher is important - Emotions are safe - Everyone belongs We honour rhythms rather than rigid routines. There are seasons for effort and seasons for rest. We help each other when energy runs low. We accept fluctuations as part of life. Support replaces shame when energy dips. We take care of this place and of each other as an act of love - not because we must do everything ourselves but because home is something we build together. We keep our home ordered enough to feel calm, not perfect. Our home is not a performance for others - it is a living system that adapts with us. Our home is emotionally safe. This means: - Feelings are allowed without ridicule or minimisation - Humour is welcome and understood as connection - Listening is mutual, not one-sided - Boundaries are respected without guilt.  Above all, this home is a hearth: - A place to return to - A place to recover - A place to grow strong gently We accept that the wider world may become more uncertain. We choose to respond calmly and practically, without panic or denial. Preparedness for us means: - Reducing our fragility and reliance - Increasing choice - Maintaining dignity and care under pressure - Staying connected rather than isolated We focus our responsibility first on our household, knowing that strong homes are the foundation of strong communities. What This Looks Like In Daily Life