10d • ✨💍 Dating & Marriage
Day 2: Marriage by Design 💍✨
Men have a deep need for respect.
Men are reenergized by respect. It speaks to their soul and lays the foundation for them to lead, provide, and love well.
Women are reenergized by love.
We need to feel accepted, cherished, and secure. From that place of love, we are able to fulfill our roles as helpers and walk in gentle strength.
Marriage by God’s design requires that you live out what you are called to do whether your husband is doing what he is supposed to do or not. Regardless of his actions. This flows from your ability to trust God and reflect the same unconditional, sacrificial love that Christ shows us.
This love is transforming.
This love is redeeming.
This love softens hearts and refines marriages over time.
Prayer 🤍
Dear Lord, thank You for Your incredible design. Thank You for the sacred design of marriage. I pray for wisdom so I may fully understand my role within it. Help me fulfill my husband’s need for respect regardless of whether he deserves it in the moment or not. I desire to be a wife who honors and respects her husband.
Remove the selfish parts of me that want to justify why I should or should not serve, honor, or speak life. Teach me to love like You, God. I also pray that You reveal these truths to my husband. Show him the importance of loving and nurturing my needs. May our love grow deeper and more refined with time. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Challenge 💫
Take a moment to consider all the detail God thought about when He created you.
Write out five characteristics that are uniquely yours.
Then thank God specifically for those details.
Today’s Action 💌
Tell your husband one reason you admire and respect him.
Men feed off praise and appreciation. Your words can strengthen him more than you realize.
✨ Alternative Options for Singles
If you are single, this day still applies to you.
Instead of honoring a husband, prepare your heart for one. What’s characteristics you can thank God for now, in advance!
Today’s Action for Singles:
• Speak life over the kind of man you are praying for.
• Write down three qualities you admire in a future husband.
• Practice speaking respectfully about men in general.
Single Reflection:
How can you practice respect in your current relationships with fathers, brothers, male coworkers, or friends?
Preparation attracts alignment. 💍
Journal Prompts 🖊️
For Married Women:
• What ways does your husband show you love?
• What is one thing that makes it hard to respect him sometimes?
• What is one practical way you can show him more respect this week?
For Singles:
• What does respect look like in dating?
• Have you ever withheld respect because someone did not “earn” it?
• How can you become the kind of partner you are praying for?
Marriage by design begins in the heart long before the ceremony. 🤍
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Day 2: Marriage by Design 💍✨
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