Okay ladies… I started reading this new book on Audible and it is SO so good 🤍 I had to come here and share for any ladies who would like to join in!
It’s a 30 day devotional and I already know this is one of those books that shifts you from the inside out.
Even if you are single, dating or already married you can modify and SCRIPT on “it’s already done”!
And I don’t want to do it alone.
Let’s do it together 👑 this is what community and sisterhood is all about!
One of the biggest mindset shifts for me was this:
I don’t “become” a wife one day.
I am already a wife.
Wife energy is an identity before it is a title.
But here’s the part that really humbled me…
My role, responsibilities, and emotional posture as a wife were not modeled for me growing up. I did not see a healthy example of marriage.
So while I embody wife energy, I also have to LEARN the skills.
Softness can be learned.
Respect can be refined.
Communication can be practiced.
Peace can be cultivated.
And here’s the truth…
It requires consistency.
Consistency in spending time with God.
Consistency in renewing your mind.
Consistency in practicing the skills.
Consistency in choosing love over ego.
Consistency in embodying the woman you are becoming and designed to be.
You do not get closer to God by accident but by intentionality.
You do not develop wife characteristics overnight.
You strengthen them daily.
Small decisions.
Daily devotion.
Intentional growth.
This is not about perfection, or pretending.
It is about preparation and vulnerability by willingness to grow and self-reflect.
It is about becoming the woman who can sustain the marriage she is praying for.
If you are dating for marriage, engaged, married, or healing your view of partnership… I highly recommend this devotional.
Let’s go through the 30 days together. We can reflect, journal, and discuss weekly 🤍 I will post updates and journal prompts here as well. But I encourage you to get the book on audible or I’m sure it’s offered elsewhere. I have the PLUS membership on audible and it was free for me.
Drop a 💍 if you’re in.
Let’s build. Let’s grow. Let’s prepare.
The Book:
Wife after God by Jennifer Smith