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Start Here: You don’t have to pretend to be "fine" anymore.
Hey everyone, Tom here. First off, take a deep breath. You made it. I know walking into a room full of strangers (even a digital one) can be terrifying. You might be wondering if you belong here, or if you have the energy to "keep up." Let me stop you right there: There is no keeping up to do here. We built Talking With Tom (TWT) because the world is loud, and trying to explain depression to people who don’t have it is exhausting. Out there, you have to wear a mask. In here, you can take the mask off. Whether you are having a good day, a numb day, or a "can't get out of bed" day - you are welcome exactly as you are. 🏠 How to use this space: This is our living room. Share your wins (no matter how small), vent about the hard stuff, or just read what others are going through so you feel less alone. If you came here for the "Bad Day Rescue Guide" (our free toolkit for surviving low days), click the "Classroom" tab at the top. It’s unlocked and waiting for you. The Rules: We only have two big ones. Zero Judgment: We are all fighting a battle. Kindness is our currency. Safety: We are a peer support group, not doctors. We are here to support, not to diagnose. 👇 Your First Step - (The Intro): We want to know you, but we don't need your life story yet. Let’s keep it simple. In the comments below, introduce yourself by telling us: Your name (or nickname). One "Comfort Item" that helps you get through a bad day (e.g., your dog, a specific video game, coffee, a cozy hoodie). I’ll start: I’m Tom. My comfort item is a hot cup of black coffee and sitting by the window. We are so glad you’re here. (Disclaimer: If you are currently in crisis or feel unsafe, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis hotline immediately. This community is for support, but we cannot provide emergency medical care.)
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Start Here: You don’t have to pretend to be "fine" anymore.
First Live Stream tonight
Tonight I'm trying something new. I'll be going live on TikTok this evening for the first time. No big agenda. No polished production. Just a real conversation around mental health, personal development, life, and whatever questions come up. If you'd like to join me, come and say hello. Time: 7:30pm TikTok: @TalkingWithTom
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First Live Stream tonight
Interview: Coach Andy James (teaser)
"This Is Not How My Story Ends" At 29 years old, professional coach Andy James had lost almost everything. His business was gone. His relationship had ended. He'd lost access to his son. He was battling severe anxiety, depression and agoraphobia. Then one morning, standing in front of a bathroom mirror, he made a decision that changed the course of his life. This is a small clip from a much longer conversation we recorded together. The first half of the 80min interview is now available on YouTube and covers mental health, resilience, identity, recovery and what it really takes to rebuild your life when everything falls apart. YouTube link: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvARCnitAcnFEJVj_Sv_P-JqGVatgXX8H&si=QMeaa-GzMZ_Qb1Wc
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Interview: Coach Andy James (teaser)
HOW TO APPLY 🥊
Life can hit hard sometimes. Stress. Setbacks. Losing momentum. That’s why Cam, Omar and I are launching the Fight Back Project 🥊 We’re sponsoring 1-2 people for a 13 week boxing journey focused on rebuilding physically and mentally. This isn’t about finding the best fighter. It’s about giving someone an opportunity to fight their way forward again. If you’re serious about changing your situation, DM me “FIGHT BACK” and we’ll send you the application details.
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HOW TO APPLY 🥊
When little things add up
Busy but positive week. A few highlights: - New tattoo dedicated to my daughter 💜- Treated myself to some gym equipment 💪- Sorted the rooftop flowers out with mum 🌸 - Spent some proper time with family and friends on the canal boats ☀️ Nothing massively life changing, but I’m starting to appreciate that building a better life is usually a lot of small things done consistently, not just big moments.
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When little things add up
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