We all do this thing where we want something…
and then immediately start talking ourselves out of it.
I set a big desire recently — 500 paid Skool members — and within minutes my mind was already listing the reasons it “probably won’t happen.”
Not because I don’t want it.
But because my brain thinks it’s “protecting” me from disappointment.
And this time of year?
That voice gets even louder:
✨ “I shouldn’t want that.”
✨ “I can’t afford that.”
✨ “What’s the point?”
✨ “Nothing ever changes.”
We don’t just doubt our dreams.
We rehearse the failure before we’ve even begun.
But here’s the truth:
Lack-thinking isn’t reality — it’s a habit.
And habits can be rewritten.
So, here’s your shift for today:
Instead of talking yourself out of what you want…
try talking yourself into it.
Talk yourself into possibility.
Talk yourself into the “you” who can. Talk yourself into receiving. Talk yourself into the identity that matches the vision you hold.
Because your brain listens to the stories you repeat.
💬 What are you choosing to talk yourself into today?
Claim it below — even one sentence can change your momentum.
And if you want a space where you can consistently rewrite these internal stories…
where you don’t have to do the mindset work alone…
where the woman you’re becoming is supported, seen, and encouraged —
I created Awaken ‘Her’ Within for that exact reason.
It’s a community for women who are done talking themselves out of their own power…
and ready to start talking themselves into their potential, their desires, and their next-level self.
If that feels like the shift you’re craving, you’re invited to join us: