Shameless Lesson 3: Family
Woah you guys!! Today's Shameless Lesson was FIRE 🔥 Lesson 3 is posted in the CLASSROOM tab, upgrade to receive access. I love teaching this workshop because you guys have so many “ah-ha” moments, and today did not disappoint. We opened this lesson by discussing last week’s homework assignment. The first one was on being mechanical or unconscious. Moving from the unconscious to the conscious requires a manual shock from you — it takes the right effort at the right time to begin interrupting your patterns. Then we discussed what you experienced during your next assignment. I loved hearing all your results and I’m proud of each and every one of you who completed the task. I’ve had many students refuse to follow through with the homework, and that refusal expands into every area of life. Then they wonder why their dreams are not manifesting. I thought it was really interesting that two of you had the exact same experience. Then we went deep into this week’s Lesson Three on Family Shame — discussing the types, where it comes from, how you’re constantly reminded of it, and why you refuse to put it down, purposely limiting your capacity to grow. Today we broke that pattern open. Let’s get into the case studies. Case Study One: This person came in with something that looked small on the surface — things that were “said” that didn’t match what the “eyes” could see within the family belief system. Small inconsistencies with big consequences. But that’s the thing about shame — it’s never the big dramatic moments that wire you. It’s the quiet ones you’d never think affected you that create the shame block and limit the amount of pleasure you allow yourself to feel. In all my years teaching this, I’ve had only a few students who truly knew the exact moment the shame block was born, myself and my teacher included. The moments that block you are usually so small and insignificant that you’d never think to look there. That’s why this work is so powerful. You get to the very root.