Nov '25 (edited) • General
Relapse, day 0 - not as planned!
Hey guys,
This is not the way I Imagined writing my first relapse. bit of tough one mentally and physically today.
My aim was to no fap/SR and ONLY release with women/a steady woman.
I was dating with a girl going steady, and dropped off my other dates that were around to focus on her this week as everything was going very well, a lot of hand holding, kissing and a lot of deep conversations.
Things were due to well be released with a meetup yesterday but late into the afternoon didn't seem right at the dreaded txt landed 'hey its been nice getting to know you but I don't see this going any further'.
Unfortunately this ended in beers, doobies, mates and later (alone of course haha) black and orange websites and websites with hamsters on them!
This HAD to happen and the reason for this was the last week has been tough , the biggest issue I've had was a considerable drop off in libido and the idea that not much was happening down there I also had a strange heavy feeling in the legs and was lacking morning wood , and almost like the 'powers' from the last 3 weeks had worn off, very odd. I do have some pretty full on life stuff going on just now so I think that affected the SR feeling and the relationships I had.
I live and learn from this , I've learnt so much from the SR journey and im actually really excited to start from day 0 knowing what I do now. I have another 'friend with benefits' im seeing this week so it will be interesting to see if the female attention and libido re-appear from fresh, I'm confident it will and im wondering whether each person has their 'best window' or 'maximum time' , I was getting concerned with the negative effects so I will need to see what happens with this next run to compare.
Perhaps after the 4 weeks new things would happen I just don't know but my plan isn't celibacy its releasing with women and I feel the 2/3 week window was when I was feeling the full effects under control of SR.
Good luck guys! 💪
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Relapse, day 0 - not as planned!
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