14d • General discussion
I owe you an apology (and a bit of truth)
Hey everyone,
I’m going to address the elephant in the room: I have been gone for over a month.
For a community built on showing up for each other, that is unacceptable. I am sorry for the silence.
But I want to be real with you about why.
Even though I am a coach, I am also a human. I am still vulnerable to the abuse from my narcissistic ex. As many of you know, the holidays don't always bring peace—they often bring the hardest, most amplified conflict. This past season was tough, and it gets harder before it gets easier.
But instead of letting that defeat me, I went into a "deep work" cave. I realized I couldn't just talk about these problems anymore. I needed to build tools to fix them.
For the last days, I have been heads-down building two projects for us:
1. The "Internal" Tool: The Boy with the Blue Bike 🚲 I wrote a children’s book to help our kids understand their big, scary emotions. It’s a story about a boy named Leo who rides his bike through "neighborhoods" of feelings—like the happy Colorville or the gloomy Stonehaven. It’s based on Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) principles, designed to give you a map to talk to your kids when they are hurting.
2. The "External" Tool: Guardian Ledger AI 🛡️ We all just survived the holiday season—the most complicated time for co-parenting, whether yours is cooperative or high-conflict. I am developing an app called Guardian Ledger AI. It is designed specifically to handle the chaos that happens during these times. It documents evidence, tracks violations, and organizes facts so you can protect your family in court when the "holiday spirit" turns into harassment. We already have the Patent Pending and the Trademark is on process.
If anyone (US Only) would like to try as beta user or you know someone that could benefit from an app like this, we are happy to have you and we will offer benefits for your feedback.
What’s Next? I am back. And I am bringing these tools with me.
The book is actually launching on Kickstarter on January 20th. If you want to support it (and get a tool to help your kids heal), please click the link below and hit "Notify me on launch."
I hope everyone has a great year ahead. We are going to make this one count.
I’ve missed this group. Let’s get back to work.
- Jose
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I owe you an apology (and a bit of truth)
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