19d • Reflections
Why I stopped coming for 90 days.
Hello lover,
There was a period during my 20s that I decided to try being fully celibate for 90 days. It needed multiple attempts, but I eventually succeeded.
When I started to be intimate with women again afterward, I decided that I would still not orgasm during it.
That had some interesting unforeseen outcomes.
The women I was with were so confused why I wasn’t coming. Some of them were satisfied with a quick explanation. Others I really needed to convince that this wasn’t because I didn’t find them sexy, or that there was anything wrong with them.
Something else that happened was that when I would orgasm, they would be incredibly more intense. Which wasn’t only great for me, but the women loved seeing me enjoy myself, they found it so much hotter than what they had experienced with other men.
There’s much more I could write about this. But the bottom line is this: when I started to be more mindful of when I would orgasm and when I wouldn’t, my whole outlook on sex changed. And only for the better. Which is true for all the men who start playing around with this.
I discovered that as men we can learn to be multiorgasmic. That we also have different types of orgasms, something most men have never even heard about.
That’s why in week 7 of Reclaim the Fire it’s all about cultivating sexual energy and orgasmic expressions. A fascinating deep dive into male sexuality.
Want to know more about Reclaim the Fire? You can read more below.
Your intimacy guide,
Sanne
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Why I stopped coming for 90 days.
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