Hey Brother,
I’m just going to say it.
The state of your intimate life right now says a lot about how much you respect yourself.
You are wired to connect.
Your nature is to show love and appreciation through wanting to be with her, and in her.
Good intimacy is what makes a man feel alive.
It's what fuels his mission.
It's what keeps him going.
So if it’s barely there, or nonexistent…
Then it’s time to face the truth of why that is.
Most men think it’s about technique, chemistry, or finding the right partner.
It’s not.
It’s about your relationship with yourself.
With your desire, your honesty, your leadership.
When you disconnect from those, your intimacy reflects it back to you.
The good news?
Whether you’re partnered or single, you can always rebuild that connection.
You can learn to feel confident in your body again.
To lead with clarity and direction.
To reclaim your self-respect by transforming your intimate life.
Tomorrow, we begin an 8-week journey into the Art of Intimacy.
A roadmap every man needs but few ever receive.
You’ll learn how female arousal truly works.
How to communicate for deeper trust and passion.
How to make love in ways that keep her coming back for more.
But more than that:you’ll learn to respect your desire,
honor your masculine presence,
and feel proud of the man you’re becoming.
That’s what truly matters.
That’s what transforms a man from intimacy-starved to an unforgettable lover.
We’ve got a few spots left.
If this message stirred something in you,
This is the last chance this year to evolve your love life.
Start 2026 with the fire burning...inside yourself, and inside the bedroom.
See you inside,
— Sanne
P.S. Here are some words from a previous participant:
After 20 years of marriage, my wife and I decided to see a therapist because we hadn't connected sexually for several years.Their advice was clear: I needed to attend a men's group if we wanted to change anything.
After some research, I contacted Sanne.
He suggested to take an online class called "Reclaim the Fire," which he was just starting.Eight weeks of two-hour classes, followed by an hour-long Q&A a few days later.When I signed up, I thought, "What the hell is he going to talk about, eight weeks in a row???"
I have to be honest: He blew me away, from the very first class.I quickly realized how completely ignorant I was about connecting with women. What the dynamic between women and men should be like.
He really knows what he's talking about. The passion and enthusiasm he exudes during his classes is truly inspiring.They should make it a mandatory curriculum in education. The world would be a much better place. Had I known this 30 years ago, I would/could have been a fantastic lover.
So, to all you young guys, don't wait until you're 59 to learn what relationships are all about. To learn how to be a real manThat being said, my problems haven't completely vanished, but there has been definite progress between me and my wife sexually, and emotionaly.
I have a lot more tools to rebuild a healthy, engaging relationship, but it remains a work in progress. His teachings aren't a quick fix for me—which, if you ask me, doesn't exist—but rather a way of being with women, that I need to integrate and absorb.
I'm convinced that most men are just as ignorant in this area as I was. We were simply never taught.
One advice : Find Sanne Bostyn and follow his class "Reclaim the Fire."
It will give your life and your relationship(s) much more dynamism, and a much greater chance of success. You will understand what women are all about, and how to relate tot them.