ALL Self Sabotage stems from one thing: Suffering.
I help each of my clients to understand that suffering is any Feeling/Emotional experience that is LESS THAN what they would willingly choose for themself. And unfortunately - no amount of "Success" can ever lift someone out of suffering. They have to intentially do that for themself.
And that starts with self love. Loving yourself enough to intentionally raise yourself out of suffering.
Unfortunately, most people have no idea how to raise themself out of suffering. Which is a large part of what makes what I do for my clients valuable beyond any amount of money or success.