23d • Relationships
Not All Truth Belongs in Every Relationship
Have you ever shared something honest…
and only later realised it created discomfort instead of connection? 🤍
I want to share a subtle but powerful relationship teaching that most of us were never taught.
💛 Not all truth belongs in every relationship.
💛 Not all attraction is sexual — but all attraction creates energy when directed at a person.
💛 And honesty without attunement can unintentionally become intrusion.
Here’s something many of us don’t realise:
You can feel appreciation, resonance, even attraction —
without attachment, without desire, without agenda.
That part is healthy.
That part is human.
But the moment we place that feeling into another person’s nervous system, the relational field changes.
Suddenly there is:
🌿 one who feels
🌿 one who is being felt about
🌿 a subtle asymmetry
🌿 a quiet tension
Even if the feeling is gentle.
Even if the intention is clean.
Even if nothing is meant to happen.
This is where relational wisdom begins.
Authenticity is not only about saying what is true inside us.
It is also about asking:
✨ Is this invited?
✨ Is this appropriate for this context?
✨ What nervous system will this land in?
✨ Who else does this affect?
One of the deepest forms of maturity is learning to:
💛 feel attraction without attaching
💛 feel resonance without pursuing
💛 feel polarity without objectifying
💛 feel openness without projecting
And sometimes… the most loving thing we can do is to
hold a feeling privately, rather than placing it into someone else’s life.
This isn’t suppression.
It’s sovereignty plus care.
It’s truth guided by wisdom.
It’s love guided by attunement.
A gentle reflection for you:
Where in your life might honesty be asking for a little more attunement…
and a little more care? 🌿
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PS:
What part of this message stayed with you the most today?
You’re very welcome to share below — I read and reflect on every reply 🤍
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