My story, my heart, and why I created the Thriving Love Circle There was a time when I genuinely thought my marriage was finished. Not because we didn’t love each other — but because we didn’t know how to love each other through our wounds. I made mistakes. My wife made mistakes. Our nervous systems were overwhelmed. Old trauma was running the show. Arguments spiraled, connection faded, and we found ourselves standing on opposite sides of the same room, feeling miles apart. There were nights I wondered if our family would break. There were days I felt scared that I was losing the woman I loved and the home we were trying to build. There were moments when the kids felt the tension and my heart broke watching it happen. 💔 But little by little… things changed. Not because of luck. Not because things “just got better.” But because we learned skills — emotional maturity, somatic regulation, tone awareness, pacing, validation, repair, soft presence, and safety-first communication. These were the tools that took us from: ❌ walking on eggshells → ✔ a calmer home ❌ conflict spirals → ✔ real repair and softening ❌ emotional distance → ✔ safe, steady reconnection ❌ fear of losing each other → ✔ feeling like a team again ❌ almost separating more than once → ✔ raising our kids in a loving, stable home These are the tools that saved our marriage… and transformed our family. They’re the reason I show up to teach this work today. 💛 💛 If You’re Longing for the Same Healing… If your relationship feels strained… If conflict keeps looping… If communication breaks down… If one or both of you struggle with triggers, shutdowns, or overwhelm… If you just want more peace, stability, and emotional safety in your home… You belong in a space where real change is possible — gently, steadily, with support. That’s why I created the Thriving Love Circle. This is where I teach the exact practices that helped rebuild my marriage and my emotional maturity as a man, a partner, and a father.

Dear soul, I wrote my new book Held and Free with the highest accuracy and life changing impact in mind — exactly what I needed (but didn't have) when I was in the most of my deepest and most difficult challenges of my adult life. It's precisely what would have helped me the most had I know these lessons back then. It wasn't meant to be but my new book IS meant for you to potentially have a much smoother, softer, cosier ride through the storms and gales of adult relationships including parenting. It's being professionally interiorally designed right now by the highest quality standard 5/5 star person i could find with over a hundred reviews on a vetted platform. I want this to be the best of the best book that I could make, that's literally deeply life and relationship transformative. I went through the toughest challenges and heartbreak so you don't have to. I studied and reflected extensively so you don't have to weather the storm like I did. Losing it all before rebounding and actually gaining it all back again to my and my wife's greatest surprise. Held and Free - A Soulful Guide to Healing, Sacred Love and Emotional Maturity coming out soon in launchweek on amazon worldwide both as ebook and paperbook. Artistically crafted from heart and soul from personal experience and with the help of a creative formatting wizard. I will print and have copies Indonesian and will be available in restaurants and bookstores across Bali soon also, and hopefully bookstores worldwide. I also envision it to be translated into many languages if anyone is interested please let me know by sending me a DM. Thank you for your interest in healing and expansion into higher, sweet states, first loving and facing our heavier, "darker" sides first. Before leaving I want to offer you a free trial of my new Thriving Love Circle 👇 💛 Your heart doesn’t need to carry everything alone.Your relationship doesn’t need to stay stuck or confusing.And your healing deserves deeper support than a few posts on Instagram.

Dear soul, I wrote my new book Held and Free with the highest accuracy and life changing impact in mind — exactly what I needed (but didn't have) when I was in the most of my deepest and most difficult challenges of my adult life. It's precisely what would have helped me the most had I know these lessons back then. It wasn't meant to be but my new book IS meant for you to potentially have a much smoother, softer, cosier ride through the storms and gales of adult relationships including parenting. It's being professionally interiorally designed right now by the highest quality standard 5/5 star person i could find with over a hundred reviews on a vetted platform. I want this to be the best of the best book that I could make, that's literally deeply life and relationship transformative. I went through the toughest challenges and heartbreak so you don't have to. I studied and reflected extensively so you don't have to weather the storm like I did. Losing it all before rebounding and actually gaining it all back again to my and my wife's greatest surprise. Held and Free - A Soulful Guide to Healing, Sacred Love and Emotional Maturity coming out soon in launchweek on amazon worldwide both as ebook and paperbook. Artistically crafted from heart and soul from personal experience and with the help of a creative formatting wizard. I will print and have copies Indonesian and will be available in restaurants and bookstores across Bali soon also, and hopefully bookstores worldwide. I also envision it to be translated into many languages if anyone is interested please let me know by sending me a DM. Thank you for your interest in healing and expansion into higher, sweet states, first loving and facing our heavier, "darker" sides first. Before leaving I want to offer you a free trial of my new Thriving Love Circle 👇 💛 Your heart doesn’t need to carry everything alone.Your relationship doesn’t need to stay stuck or confusing.And your healing deserves deeper support than a few posts on Instagram.

Love isn’t about finding someone perfect — it’s about finding someone who makes every imperfection feel worth it

The best love story begins when you decide to love yourself first.