Another handy resource to keep in your rucksack for when situations arise that you may ruminate on (overthink or obsessively return to).
It's also useful in outdoor scenarios! Let's have a look.
The 5-5-5 rule looks at giving you a framework to pose questions to.
- Will this situation bother me in 5 minutes?
- What has happened?
- Pause and take 5 minutes to consider the situation, possible challenges and solutions
- Is the situation significant enough not to ignore and move on? If yes, then consider your next move.
2. Will this situation bother me in 5 days?
- Consider, if you were to carry around the weight of that situation or the outcome, how would you feel in 5 days? Confident? Upset? Worried? Angry?
- If it will sit with you for 5 consecutive days - move to considering current solutions to the challenge
3. 5 Years - will this still matter in 5 years?
- Is this a risky situation whereby the negative outcome will still be with you for 5 years or potentially impact you / others for another 5 years?
- Consider the mental load of carrying a poor decision or actions for 5 years
- Will it even matter in 5 years? Will people move on and forget about it?
These are all useful questions to pose to yourself when considering actions to a situation whether it be outdoors in terms of making decisions or in daily life in terms of coping with conflict or other difficult situations.
Hope it helps 👍🏼
~Step Outside, to Reset Inside~