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Welcome to Radical Unbecoming!
I’m Becki, and I’m so happy you’re here! Before we dive in, I want to share a little about me—and why this community matters so much. I’m a Certified Professional Life Coach and Energy Leadership Index Master, and after 30+ years in higher education leadership, I’m standing in a season of profound transition myself. I’m preparing to retire from a long career that has been meaningful, demanding, and deeply intertwined with my identity. At the same time, I’m building a coaching business centered around work I feel deeply called to do. And like many women in this season, I’m also navigating real-life challenges that stretch me daily—supporting adult children through difficult seasons, managing the emotional load that comes with caring deeply, learning to release over-functioning, and asking bigger questions about who I am now and what this next chapter is meant to look like. In other words… I’m in it too. That’s why I created Radical Unbecoming. Because so many of us reach this season carrying decades of expectations, responsibilities, conditioning, and roles that once fit—but no longer do. We’ve spent years being: 💪 Capable 🛟 Reliable 🔥 Strong 📋 Responsible 🏛️ The ones everyone counts on And somewhere along the way, many of us became disconnected from ourselves. Radical Unbecoming is not your average midlife or menopause community. This isn’t a space for passive scrolling, surface-level conversations, or collecting more information. This is a space for: 💬 Truth 🔥 Courage 🩵 Connection 🎯 Real momentum Here, we: 🤝 Collaborate 🔥 Challenge 🌿 Reflect 🎯 Take action We practice telling the truth about what no longer fits.vWe challenge old beliefs and patterns. We support each other without fixing or rescuing. And together, we begin reclaiming what matters most. 🩵 Your voice 🩵 Your truth 🩵 Your power 🩵 Your self-trust A few things to know: 🩵 Come as you are—messy, uncertain, hopeful, exhausted, curious. 💬 Tell the truth—honesty creates connection. 🤝 Engage—don’t sit quietly on the sidelines forever.
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Let's start with curiosity and how we ended up here
Nobody prepared women for this part. Not the hormonal shifts. Not the identity shifts. Not the marriage shifts. Not the empty nest grief. Not the career burnout. Not the strange feeling of looking around at the life you built and thinking… Wait. What now? Midlife isn’t just physical. It’s existential. And most women I talk to aren’t having a crisis. They’re having a reckoning. That’s why I created Radical Unbecoming 💜 What is one shift you have noticed in the past few months, year...that has you wondering "how did I end up here," or "this cannot be it!"??
Let's start with curiosity and how we ended up here
🌿 Sunday Evening Check-In 🌿
Happy Sunday evening, beautiful humans! 💜 Before the weekend slips away and Monday starts whispering your name (or shouting it...😅), let's take a moment to pause and reconnect. I'd love to see what filled your cup this weekend! 📸 Drop a favorite picture (or two!) in the comments. It doesn't have to be perfectly curated. Maybe it was your morning coffee ☕, a hike 🥾, your grandkids 💕, your dog being delightfully unhinged 🐶, a gorgeous sunset 🌅, or simply a quiet moment that reminded you to breathe. Now let's set ourselves up for success this week... I want you to commit to ONE thing. Just one. Not seventeen new habits, a complete life makeover, and a meal-prepped refrigerator worthy of Pinterest by Tuesday. 😆 We're practicing Radical Unbecoming, not Radical Overwhelm. Choose one simple thing that feels doable: ✨ Go to bed by 9:00 PM. 📚 Read that book you've been meaning to start—for just 10 minutes. 🚶 Take a walk. 💧 Drink more water. ☎️ Call someone you love. 🧘 Sit quietly for five minutes. 💌 Do something thoughtful for someone else. ❤️ Or choose something that's been quietly tugging at your heart. Remember... This is YOUR time now. Small, intentional actions create momentum. And momentum creates transformation. 🎉 Also...go check out our updated About section! I've added our new Radical Unbecoming Framework, so you can see exactly how we'll move through this journey together: 💜 Awareness → Alignment → Action → Transformation I can't wait to hear what resonates with you! And because I'm asking you to share your commitment, here's mine... 🙋‍♀️ This week I'm committing to: ✨ Working on (goal is to launch) our very first Classroom Assessment (I can't wait for you to experience it! 🤓) 💜 Spending intentional time with one of my closest friends next weekend. Because nurturing our relationships is just as important as pursuing our goals. Now it's your turn! 👇 Share: 📸 Your favorite weekend photo ✨ The ONE thing you're committing to this week And while you're here, cheer on another woman in the comments. One encouraging word can go a lot farther than you think.
🌿 Sunday Evening Check-In 🌿
Weekend Contemplation
Happy Saturday, beautiful humans 💜 Can we talk about something nobody really prepared us for? Not the hormonal shifts. Not the identity shifts. Not the marriage shifts. Not the empty nest grief. Not the career burnout. Not the strange feeling of looking around at the life you built and thinking… Wait. What now? Midlife isn’t just physical. It’s existential. And most women I know aren’t having a crisis. They’re having a reckoning. A deep, honest moment of realizing: The version of me that got me here may not be the version of me meant for what comes next. That realization can feel unsettling. But it can also be incredibly freeing. That’s what Radical Unbecoming is all about. Letting go of the roles, expectations, patterns, and beliefs that no longer fit… So you can create what’s next with more truth, freedom, and alignment. ✨ Weekend Question: What is one version of yourself you feel ready to release… —or one part of yourself you’re ready to reclaim? (There’s no right answer here. Just honesty.) I’ll go first: I’m continually unbecoming the version of me that thought I had to hold everything together for EVERYONE. Your turn 👇
Weekend Contemplation
Quick Intro and Let's Go!
Today's coffee hour was productive for me! I worked while I waited and decided it was a good time to do a quick intro and share the inspiration behind this community! Take a look, and watch for our next coffee hour soon! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
Quick Intro and Let's Go!
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