Just wrapped up reading One Minute for Yourself by Spencer Johnson (co-author of The One Minute Manager and Who Moved My Cheese?).
I got it for free with credit at my favorite used book store. It's a quick, simple read, but the core message is a total mindset shift: taking just one minute a day for intentional self-care and self-reflection can dramatically improve your entire life.
In a world that constantly demands our attention, this book is a necessary anchor back to ourselves. Rootedness isn't just about being in nature; it's about being present and connected to your own needs.
Here are my main takeaways:
- You must take care of yourself first. It sounds selfish, but it's essential. You can't pour from an empty cup. Johnson emphasizes that finding personal fulfillment is the first step to genuinely helping others.
- Life is lived minute by minute. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by huge chunks of time, focus on the small, intentional moments you can carve out daily. Small, consistent steps lead to lasting change.
- Self-love and self-sufficiency are non-negotiable. The book suggests that to be truly happy and balanced, we must first achieve a solid sense of self-love and not rely entirely on external validation.
- The "one minute" reduces stress. This tiny pause helps bring a sense of peace and balance, making you more effective at work and at home. It's a simple hack for a busy life.
- Bringing out the best in yourself is an active process. It’s not just about waiting for things to get better; it's about using that one minute to actively decide how to respond to situations and proactively manage your life.
The main principle I'm integrating into my own routine is the idea that if you once gain time for thought, you will more easily command yourself and your reactions.
I've already started implementing my 60-second self-check-ins.
What's one thing you could do in one minute today to bring more balance into your life?