You cannot strengthen what you are unaware of. Mental wellness begins with self-awareness, developing the ability to notice your patterns before they control you. This means paying attention to your triggers, your emotional reactions, your stress signals, and the coping behaviors you default to when life feels heavy. Self-awareness allows you to catch yourself in real time, creating space between what happens to you and how you choose to respond. Without awareness, we live on autopilot, reacting instead of responding, repeating the same patterns, and wondering why nothing changes. With awareness, you gain choice. And choice is where growth begins. Mental wellness isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being honest with yourself and intentional with your responses.