Premature Ejaculation Mastery Manual - Taoist Way Page 1: What Is Premature Ejaculation? – A Taoist View 1. Premature ejaculation is usually defined as finishing too early, often within one to two minutes of penetration, and before the person wants to. But Taoist wisdom sees this not just as a physical issue, but as a sign of imbalance in your breath, energy, and awareness. 2. From the Taoist view, ejaculation is the release of Jing — your vital essence. Losing it too quickly is not failure. It’s a signal that something deeper needs attention. 3. In Taoist medicine, premature ejaculation often relates to excess fire in the lower abdomen, weak kidney Qi, unsettled Shen (mind-spirit), and blocked energy flow between the lower belly and the heart. 4. These traditional ideas line up with what many men say today. They describe hypersensitivity, pelvic tension, shallow breathing, racing thoughts, and anxiety around performance. 5. The nervous system kicks into fight-or-flight mode. Qi rises quickly to the chest and genitals. Ejaculation becomes a reflex. Taoist practice teaches us to reverse this pattern — to let energy settle, circulate, and build. 6. Taoism shows that ejaculation isn’t something to be feared or suppressed. It’s an energy that can be cultivated and transformed. Mastery doesn’t come from control. It comes from calm awareness and internal balance. 7. This manual will guide you through practices to restore that balance: breathwork, Qigong, energy circulation, and emotional grounding. 8. These teachings don’t promise instant results. But they do promise something deeper — a path to lasting confidence and real connection, with yourself and with others. 9. In the next chapter, we’ll look more closely at how your mind and body are wired together in the sexual reflex — and how you can retrain that connection. 10. Reflection: What’s your current relationship with ejaculation? Does it feel automatic, rushed, or outside your control? Can you be curious about it without judgment?

Why Most Men Are Failing Her in Bed (And Have No Idea) Let’s cut through the crap. You’re doing your best. You care. You want to be a great lover. But if you’re like 90% of men… You’re skipping the most important part of her pleasure. You're going straight for stimulation. You’re using pressure instead of presence.You think “getting her off” is a goal you can check off. And the truth is? She’s not even there with you. She’s enduring the moment, not enjoying it.She’s playing along.She’s going through the motions… because telling you what she really needs feels like too much work. ❌ The Hidden Mistake Most Men Make Here’s what I can guarantee: If you’ve ever wondered why your partner… - Feels distant during sex - Seems “hard to please” or “not into it” - Starts pulling away after what you thought was a great night… Then you’ve likely been missing the signal beneath the surface. Because the truth is: Her pleasure lives in the subtle. Not in the show. It’s not about pressure. It’s not about performance. t’s about attunement. The Real Reason She Can’t Fully Relax With You Let’s get even more honest: You rush. You rush because you’re afraid. - Afraid she’ll say no. - Afraid you’ll do it wrong. - Afraid that just being there won’t be enough. So you press. You poke. You perform. And what she really wants? Your presence. Not your pressure. Try This: The "Slow Circles of Reverence" Technique Here’s one simple practice I share in my book Creating Her Safe Zone — and it changes everything: 🔥 The Slow Circles of Reverence Don’t aim for her clit. Don’t rush toward orgasm. Just place your hand over her mound. Rest it there. Then breathe. Do nothing.Let her body feel your stillness. Now begin the lightest circular movement.Lighter than you think. Watch. Does she breathe deeper? Does she move toward you or away? Let her body lead.Let your ego die. And when you finally do touch her — she’ll feel you with her entire nervous system.