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• Community Direction: Agar hum di gayi direction ko achhi tarah follow karein gi to hamare liye sab samajhna bohot aasan ho jaye ga.
• Frequency Shift: Hum apni frequency ko change karein aur shukarguzari wali frequency mein aa jayein. Sirf munh se "Alhamdulillah" keh dena shukarguzari nahi hai balkey hum dil se Allah Ta'ala ki ne'maton ko feel karke un ka shukar ada karein.
• Strong people / Alpha people
Aise strong log kabhi yeh nahi sochte ke Allah ne humein chhor diya hai ya hamari madad kyun nahi aa rahi.
• In ki self-esteem bohot high hoti hai.
In ko apni worth (ahmiyat) achhi tarah maloom hoti hai.
• Woh apne andar aur khud se itni mohabbat karti hain ke in ke andar se ek khas positive energy aa rahi hoti hai.
• Victim mindset hamesha doosron par blame dalta hai. Agar hamara mindset victim wala hai to humein har haal mein is se nabalna (nikalna) chahiye.
• Allah Ta'ala ka wada hai ke "Agar tum shukar ada karoge to main tumhein aur doonga." Isliye humein har haal mein shukar ada karne ki aadat daalni chahiye.
• Emotional state
Agar koi hamare baare mein bura kahe to woh us ki apni emotional state hoti hai, hum is par koi fuzool reaction nahi dein ge.
• Mera gosht ka ek dil hai jis par diamond ki coating hui hai. Agar koi mujh ko bura bolta hai to woh diamond ki coating par lagta hai, hamare dil par aake nahi lagta, kyun ke hum ne use hamare andar tak aane ki ijazat (excess) nahi di.
• Hum emotional hokar faisle nahi karti, balkey hum yeh dekhte hain ke "Hum kaun hain."
• Agar hum is ke against jayein ge aur jitna
• Haroons Rule
Hamare andar 10 aur haroons hain, balkey 100 aur haroons hain. Bas humein khud ko yeh batana hota hai ke agar woh 10,000 log hum se kehte hain ke tumhein koi mohabbat nahi mili ya tumhein kisi ne gale nahi lagaya, to woh jhoot hain; Allah ne humein is tarah bachaya hai aur dikhaya hai ke woh hum se kitni mohabbat karte hain.
• Hum apni zindagi ki har cheez mein balance rakhein, humein kabhi bhi bohot zyada extreme (shiddat) mein nahi jana chahiye.
Apne andar sab se pehle power lekar aane se pehle hum ba-adab banein. Ba-adab insan woh hota hai jo hamesha mohabbat aur izzat se apne ustad ko dekhta hai.
• Be-adab log aksar keh dete hain ke "main is scammer ko nahi manta," jab ke ek samajhdar insan un ki choti choti cheezon ko pakar kar bhi apne liye seekhne ka zariya (point of fuel) bana leta hai jo us ne khud apne liye taiyar kiya hota hai.
• Upwork Strategy
Agar hum $5,000 se $10,000 kama chuke hain, ya $50,000 kama chuke hain to humein direct direct client acquisition par nahi jana chahiye, balkey pehle kisi achhi internship ya job par aage mazeed kaam seekhna chahiye.
Agar hamari profile sahi tarah nahi bani hui to hum behtareen profile banayein. Jab hum Upwork par doosri profiles ko analyze karne jayein to dekhein ke doosre kaise grow kar rahe hain, aur phir hamari skills ke mutabiq website dev, graphics, multiple copywriting, ya virtual assistant ki alag alag dukanen (specialized profiles) Upwork par kholein.
Agar hum sahi tariqe se marketing kar rahe hain aur hamare kaam ke baad humein logon se behisaab duaein milein gi, to is se hamare kaam ki barkat mein izafa hoga aur hamare rizq mein mazeed barkat hogi.
• Daily Rules
Daily journal likhna hamare liye bohot zyada important hai. Media valley ko achhi tarah dekhne ke baad hi hum ne apna post introduce karna hai.
• Daily rules: Humein daily apna journal post karna hoga.
• If you skip journal --> instant removal (Agar hum ne journal skip kiya to community se foran remove kar diya jaye ga).
Hum doosron se seekhne ke liye un ke sath engage karein.
• Humein doosron par depend karne ke bajaye khud apne andar se validation lete rehna chahiye.
• Learning rules
• After learning you must share notes in the community (Kuch bhi seekhne ke baad hamare liye community mein notes share karna lazmi hai).
• Jab hum koi video dekh rahi hon, to koi bhi video hum ne skip nahi karni, kyun ke agar hum ek mazboot building bana rahe hain to hamare liye har ek eent bohot zaroori hai.
• Execution & Tools
• Improvement: Hum ne jo kuch bhi seekha hai, humein hamesha yeh dekhna chahiye ke is mein mazeed kya improve ho sakta tha.
"The way you do anything is the way you do everything." (Jis tarah hum koi ek kaam karte hain, hamari aadat ban jati hai ke hum zindagi ke baqi saare kaam bhi waise hi karein).
Agar hamari logon ke mamlaat mein len-den phansi hui hai aur hamara dimagh root cause ko sahi tarah nahi samajh paa raha, to hum zindagi ke har tarah ke mamlaat mein logon se galat tariqe se deal karna shuru kar dein ge. Isliye dimagh ka clear hona zaroori hai.
It's not about ke hum se koi galti ho rahi hai, asal cheez yeh hai ke ghaltiyong ke patterns aa rahe hain. Agar hamara koi ghalat pattern bar bar samne aa raha hai aur galtiyan kam nahi ho rahi hain, to is pattern ko figure out karo aur fix karo.
• Second brain
Hum apna ek "Second Brain" bana kar rakhein taake hamari saari zaroori cheezein aur data yaad rahein.
• Yahan se dekh dekh kar, soch samajh kar search karein aur apne dimagh ko itni dafa practice karwaein ke woh mushkil kaam bhi pehli baar mein hamare liye aasan ho jaye.
Hum ek hi cheez ko itna zyada karein ke hum us mein "Pro" ho jayein, is se hum andar se us skill mein bohot achhe aur expert ho jayein ge.
• Pillars & Content
Agar hum ne apni building ke do teen pillars chhor diye aur kisi jagah par security ka kaam sahi tarah nahi kiya, to hamari poori building gir jaye gi.
• Agar hum kisi ko koi aisi nasihat karein jo us ke liye thodi karwi ho, to us ko samne seedhe bolne ke bajaye hamesha ek value-based post bana kar community mein share karein taake sab ka faida ho.