This program for couples is perfect for you if: 1) You find yourself caught in exhausting cycles of conflict that feel overwhelming 2) During conflict, you or your partner swing between anxiety, pursuit, withdrawal, or shutdown 3) You want to reconnect with your partner in a way that feels relaxed, not anxious or trapped 4) You want to feel safe and secure in your relationship even during conflict 5) You are ready to transform so your relationships can actually feel different