The Hardest Part of Balancing Dad Life + Business for Me
One of the hardest parts of being a dad, for me, has been finding balance between work and truly being present with my family. I’ve always had this strong drive to plan ahead, but that same instinct can become my biggest stumbling block when it comes to quality time with my wife and daughter. I often ask myself: Will there ever be a point where I feel content enough with our financial or business situation that it’s no longer all-consuming? And if the answer is no, then the real question becomes: What can I do now to make sure I can switch off, be present, and give my family the best of me, not just what’s left of me? Recently, I’ve been working on breaking a few habits that were getting in the way, and these simple shifts have helped me reconnect: - Put the phone down. It’s such an easy distraction, but it’s rarely needed when I’m with my family. - Do more outdoor activities that require physical engagement. Climbing on a jungle gym, kicking a ball, or playing a sport draws me in and keeps my kids engaged too. - Find a new activity or place to visit on weekends. Monotony is a killer. Exploring something new sparks excitement and keeps us all present. - Cook a meal together. The kids love helping, and sharing a meal we’ve created is a real and immediate reward. These changes aren’t perfect fixes, but they’ve helped me be more present and connected at home. I’d love to know, what works for you when it comes to switching off from work and truly showing up for your family?