(I wasted a year building an offer I knew wouldn't work)
4 weeks ago I was stuck on an offer I knew wouldn't work.
3 days ago I closed my first $1,000 client.
Here's exactly what happened:
Over a year going the wrong direction, I'd been building a fitness and mindset coaching offer for over a year.
"Help young men build discipline, transform their identity, get excited about life."
I'd even gotten some results. A few clients. Some traction.
But deep down? I knew it was too vague, and too subjective.
I'd learned copywriting, marketing, business principles. I knew better.
But I was letting my emotions win.
Then I got on a call with Patrice.
She told me straight up: "That's gonna be tough to sell. Words like "discipline" and "excitement" don't sell because they're subjective."
I knew she was right, I'd known it the whole time.
But hearing it from someone else made me finally face reality.
That one call changed everything.
Week 1: Started over (but with clarity)
I pivoted to something I'd been doing but hadn't formalized: "help people start their online business."
Still broad, but now I wasn't letting passion override strategy.
I started networking. Built a free Skool community. Posted daily. Got on calls with anyone who'd talk to me.
Weeks 2-3: Found the pattern
Offered free beta coaching to see what people actually needed.
Here's what I noticed:
- Some needed help with content
- Some needed help with offers
- Some needed help with mindset
But one group kept showing up: new and aspiring online coaches.
That clicked because I'd just lived that journey myself (and learned the hard way).
I knew their problems. I'd made every mistake they were about to make.
Week 3: Doubled down
Stopped trying to help everyone.
Focused only on helping coaches get their first clients and launch on Skool.
Took a few people through my process for free. Got them wins:
- One landed their first paid client
- Another got clear on their offer
- Third one went from "I don't know what to do" to 6 beta-clients and a clear path forward
Week 4: Created the offer
Now I had proof, testimonials and I knew exactly what worked.
3 days ago, I upsold my first beta client to a $1,000 package.
They said yes in 15 minutes 29 seconds.
Why? Because they'd already seen me get them results for free.
The lesson:
Sometimes you already know what you need to do, you're just not ready to admit it.
I wasted over a year building something I knew was hard to sell because I was emotionally attached to it.
One honest conversation made me face what I'd been avoiding.
What actually works:
- Stop lying to yourself about your offer (get honest feedback from someone who's done it)
- Start broad, have real conversations
- Offer free help, see what resonates
- Notice the pattern (who shows up? what do they actually pay for?)
- Double down on what matches your experience AND what sells
- Build proof with beta clients
- Create the offer based on what actually worked
This is how you find a profitable Skool niche:
Not by building what you're passionate about, by finding where your experience meets what people actually pay for, and sometimes you need someone to make you face that reality.