Good morning family, I'm Melissa, and I'm happy to be among parents, to learn and share values. Although me and my hubby agreed we ain't making kids now until next year, I'd like to learn from parents from different countries and different perspectives. I have a few questions I'd like to ask . How did having kids change your marriage, for better or worse? What conversations should couples have before having kids? What helped you stay united as a couple while raising kids? In a marriage whereby I and my hubby are very busy with work and career, how do you raise kids properly with such a busy schedule?