Would you take financial advice from someone who is broke? Would you take marriage advice from someone who has been divorced three times and is currently single? Would you let someone coach your child in basketball who has never touched a ball in their life? No. You wouldn't. Because there is something deeply offensive about someone telling you how to do something they have never done and are not currently doing themselves. So let me ask you the real question today. Why do you keep telling your children to do things you are not doing? You tell them to calm down. You cannot regulate your own emotions. You tell them to clean their room. Your bedroom looks like a crime scene. You tell them to eat better. You are on your third bag of chips at 11pm. You tell them to pray. You haven't opened your Bible in three weeks. You tell them to get up on time. You hit snooze four times every morning and then rush everybody out the door in a panic. You tell them to control their attitude. You lose yours every single day before 9am. I am not saying this to shame you. I am saying this because the reset has to start HERE before it can work THERE. Your children are not following your instructions. They are following YOU. You are the curriculum. So before you print one chart. Before you announce one new rule. Before you sit your children down and tell them things are going to be different around here. You have to answer this question honestly Am I doing what I am asking them to do? If the answer is no that is where the reset starts. Not with your children. With you. Join me on the next post for todays Bible study on this topic

Kingdom University, it is time to reset. Not just our parenting. Not just our discipline. Not just our routines. Our homes. Starting tomorrow we are doing a 7 day Bible plan together as a community and I want every single one of you in it. It is called They're Not Bad Kids: You Just Need a System. This is not about your child being a problem. This is about you being equipped. Because most of the chaos in our homes is not a child problem. It is a system problem. A structure problem. A "nobody ever showed me how to build this" problem. And God has something to say about that. 7 days. Together. Starting tomorrow. Here is the link 👇🏽 🔗 https://bible.com/reading-plans/72620/together/81083635/invitation?token=AVVzNZlPCDsk_e3PVuP5rg&source=share Let me know if you will be joining

I need you to try something this weekend. Say it once. Just once. No repeating. No escalating. No screaming until your throat hurts and your kids still don't move. Just once. Calmly. Clearly. And then step back and let the consequence do the talking. Because here is something I need you to understand about the authority God gave you He didn't give you loud authority. He didn't give you authority that has to beg, threaten, repeat itself seventeen times, and eventually lose its mind to be taken seriously. He just gave you authority. And real authority doesn't need volume. It needs presence. Think about this When a police officer pulls onto your street you don't need him to roll down his window and scream at you to slow down. You see the car. You see the badge. You feel the presence of someone who has the power to follow through. And you fall in line. Not because he yelled. Because you believed he meant it. That is the kind of parent God called you to be. Not the loudest one in the room. The most consistent one in the room. The one your children look at and think she means what she says. He doesn't play. I already know what happens if I don't. THAT is authority. So this weekend...... here is the assignment: Speak once. Give the instruction once. Calmly. Clearly. "Clean your room. If it's not done in 20 minutes the tablet is gone for the weekend." That's it. Walk away. Don't remind them. Don't warn them again. Don't count to ten for the fourth time. Just follow through. Give the consequence without emotion. When the 20 minutes pass and the room isn't clean take the tablet. No lecture. No "I TOLD you." No dramatic speech. Just "You didn't follow through. The tablet is gone for the weekend. You can try again Monday." Calm. Final. Done. Let the silence do the work. Your children do not need you to explain how frustrated you are. They need to experience that you mean what you say. The consequence is the message. Your calm delivery is the authority. Your follow through is what changes the house.

Can I be transparent with you today? I have watched people good people, God-fearing people delay what God told them to do because they didn't feel ready enough. Qualified enough. Healed enough. Put together enough. God will circle back. He is patient like that. He will come back to the assignment He gave you. Days later. Months later. Sometimes years later. But when He does and you finally say yes the amount of time you wasted is going to disgust you. Not because He is condemning you. But because you will see clearly what was available the whole time while you were waiting to feel worthy. Start the business.Write the book.Leave the job.Start the job.Launch the podcast with ONE listener. God Himself will send the viewers. The customers. The readers. The audience. But He is waiting on YOU to move first. Here is the real question I want to leave you with today Am I trusting in HIS qualifications for me? Or do I need the world's idea of good enough before I try? Because the world will never tell you that you are ready. The world has a standard that moves every time you get close to it. The world will always find a reason why not yet. But God said before you were formed I knew you. I set you apart. I appointed you. He qualified you before you took your first breath. The only thing standing between you and the assignment is whether you believe Him more than you believe your insecurity. Moveeeeeeeeeeeeee. 🔥

Let me tell you what's actually happening over here. Because I need you to understand what you're watching being built. This is not a cartoon. This is not cute little animations with a Bible verse slapped on the end. This is not another Christian kids channel doing the same thing everybody else is doing. This is a CALLING. I am a mom who got real with God about who I was before Him — and who I became after. I started showing up on this page raw, honest, and unfiltered because somebody had to say what the polished pages wouldn't. And then God said now do it for the children. So I built Kingdom University. I wrote the books. I created the curriculum. I developed the music. I built the coaching. I showed up every single day — for YOUR family because I believe the next generation is worth every ounce of this. And now on July 1st I'm bringing it all to YouTube. LIVE. Every week. FREE. Not because it's a trend. Not because somebody told me to. But because your child deserves to know the Word in a way that actually sticks. That moves. That transforms. That goes HOME with them. Songs they'll sing in the car. Scriptures that become armor. Affirmations that rewire how they see themselves. Object lessons that make the Bible feel like it was written for THEM. Taught by me. Every week. For free. I have poured everything into this. My story. My healing. My faith. My failures. All of it became fuel for what I'm building for your family. You've been watching me show up. Now I need you to show up with me. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and hit that bell 🔔 — July 1st is 10 days away and I need your child in that room. 🎥 https://youtube.com/@kingdomuniversityllc This is Kingdom University. And we are just getting started. 👑