Proverbs 24:3-4
"By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches."
Three things build a house: wisdom, understanding, knowledge.
Not force. Not yelling. Not trying harder.
Wisdom: knowing the right thing to do.
Understanding: knowing WHY it is the right thing to do.
Knowledge: the application. Doing it.
A home reset is not about trying harder. It is about getting wisdom, gaining understanding, and then applying it consistently. That is the formula. And it has been in scripture the whole time.
In that area, do you have wisdom (you know what to do)? Understanding (you know why)? Or knowledge (you are applying it)? Which piece is missing?