You are so used to reacting to every crisis, you have forgotten what it feels like to think clearly. I remember saying, "I just need five minutes to think” and never getting them. Finding Solid Ground as a Carer walks you through the exact maze I got lost in, so you know the next step, question, and person to ask. You will find those five minutes again. The system will not wait for you to be ready, and neither will your parent's needs — every week you wait is another week alone in the maze.