For those unfamiliar, Only Fools & Horses is a classic UK sitcom - probably our equivalent of Friends in terms of popularity... There’s a moment in the show that quietly dismantles the fantasy a lot of us live inside. After years of scraping, scheming, and promising that next year, they'll be millionaires, the main character Del Boy finally gets what he’s been chasing. The money. The proof. The “I told you so.” And almost immediately… it falls flat. Not because he’s ungrateful. But because the relief he expected never arrives. That’s the uncomfortable truth the scene exposes: Achievements can’t heal a belief they were never meant to fix. Del didn’t want money for comfort. He wanted it for permission - to relax, to stop striving, to finally feel like he belonged on the other side of the line. But when self-worth is built on a future version of you, the present never feels safe enough to land in. So the chase continues. Not because you’re broken. But because the rule you’re living by was written a long time ago. What are you still using as the condition for finally letting yourself feel at ease?