Take a look at the attached color spectrum circle and choose your favorite color. That color is your current life. The other colors are past and future lives. The wheel is always turning and the colors shifting. Positions and favorites will change.
Because we are born, live, and die in what appears to be linear time, we tend to see thing in a linear way. We look for permanence, at least as far as "the rest of our lives". While we are permanence, like the circle, we are NOT permanence like the shifting colors, and things we find in life won't be either. We are the circle. Time is the circle. Everything else is the colors, ever changing.