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The lenses through which you view the world
I sometimes talk about the distorted lenses that stand between us and the world we think we’re seeing. So what do I actually mean by that? The moment we are born into this life, we are pure awareness. No conditioning. No belief system. No habits. No identity. Just presence. Then very quickly, we are placed into a mechanical vehicle - a body, a name, a look, a story. Maybe you’re blond with blue eyes. Maybe you have brown skin. Maybe your name is XYZ. And without ever questioning it, this becomes “who you are.” But here’s the truth: you are not your name. You are not your skin colour. You are not your appearance. These are things you have - not what you are. And yet, you’ll identify with them for the rest of your life. Then you go to kindergarten. School. Home. Playground. The TV. You’re taught how the world works. What’s possible. What’s normal. What’s safe. What’s dangerous. What you should want. What you shouldn’t be. Slowly, quietly, you build a belief system - not from truth, but from repetition. And if you’re lucky… one day you realise something radical: Your entire life is a reflection of your inner beliefs. You are not seeing the world as it is - you’re seeing it through lenses shaped by conditioning, expectations, and identity. A distorted world… constructed perfectly to match what you believe to be true. Now imagine this: If you could recognise those lenses - question them - and begin to dissolve them… You wouldn’t just see the world more clearly. You'd understand how it actually works. And once you see the world for what it truly is, you don’t just react to it anymore. ✨ You influence it. ✨ You shape it. ✨ You bend it - consciously. This is the work. This is the remembering. And this is exactly what I want to help you with. Stay tuned. 🌌
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✨ Community Reflection: Manifestation
Manifestation isn’t just about asking for more - it’s about who we are being while we ask. So I’d love to open this space for reflection and sharing: 💬 What do you feel is currently blocking or supporting your manifestations - your thoughts, your emotions, your nervous system, or your self-image? Have you noticed a moment in your life when something manifested not because you tried harder, but because you relaxed, trusted, or felt safe enough to receive? Share whatever feels true for you. There’s no right answer - only awareness. Let’s learn from each other’s lived experiences. 🌿✨
✨ Manifestation isn’t about wanting more. It’s about aligning deeper.
I mentioned that this year is bringing something new to this community and to my approach to this platform and my other social media platforms... I deeply believe that you can get ANYTHING you want! And I believe that I have a way of I have achieve everything in my life... Those of you who know me from here know that my life could be a book based on the crazy turns it takes every time, just to align in a way that I can enjoy what I want to experience. Is it magic? I don't think so. It is structural alignment with the reality we live in. I've been practicing it for so long... unconsciously. And now I decided that this is the biggest gift I can give to everyone - show you how to use your past, future, and present to decode reality - and start bending it to your will. Here is a little bit of a teaser, and a lot more will follow (TikTok and Skool will be my main platforms, but it's worth following my accounts on both, as the information will appear from a different angle on each platforms): You don’t manifest by forcing, chasing, or convincing the universe. You manifest by becoming coherent with what you desire. From a scientific perspective, your brain and nervous system are constantly filtering reality based on what feels familiar and safe. From a spiritual perspective, your energy attracts what matches its frequency. That means this truth is uncomfortable, but freeing: You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are ready able to abhold (as a tension to manifest). Manifestation begins when: • your nervous system feels safe enough to receive • your self-image expands - you shift your identity • you break down the contradictions - your energy stops resisting • you break down the distorted lenses through which you look at reality • your body trusts the now This is why “thinking positive” isn’t enough (although it's a great start). If your body is braced, afraid, or contracted, it will block what your mind asks for. It’s not magic against reality - it’s alignment with it.
✨ Today’s topic: You don’t need to become more to be worthy of love
With Christmas so close, there’s often a subtle pressure in the air - to be happier, more grateful, more successful, more healed, more together. But this season is actually a reminder of the opposite. Love doesn’t arrive when you’re “better.” Peace doesn’t wait until you’re “ready.” Belonging doesn’t depend on how well you’re doing. You are already worthy of love - in your tiredness, in your uncertainty, in your becoming. As Christmas approaches, the invitation isn’t to fix yourself. It’s to soften. To let yourself be held by the moment. To remember that you don’t need to earn warmth, connection, or grace. ✨ You are enough - exactly as you are, exactly now. PS. Mindful Monday Meditation today as usual 💜
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✨ What's the difference between people pleasing and kindness?
At first glance, they can look similar. Both involve giving, caring, and considering others. But the inner source is completely different. 🌿 People-Pleasing (Psychological Perspective) People-pleasing is driven by fear. Fear of: - rejection - conflict - being disliked - abandonment - being “too much” or “not enough” It comes from a nervous system that learned: “I stay safe by keeping others happy.” When you people-please: - you override your own needs - you suppress your truth - you say yes when your body says no - you seek external validation - you feel anxious or resentful afterward People-pleasing disconnects you from yourself. It’s not generosity — it’s self-abandonment. 🌌 Kindness (Spiritual Perspective) Kindness is rooted in wholeness. It comes from: - inner safety - self-connection - self-respect - emotional regulation When you’re kind: - you don’t lose yourself - you don’t need approval - you can say no without guilt - your giving feels clean and nourishing - your energy remains intact Kindness flows from fullness, not fear. It’s an expression of love — not a strategy for safety. 💛 How to tell the difference in the moment Ask yourself: - Am I doing this to be liked or to be true? - Does this expand me or drain me? - Would I still do this if no one praised me? - Can I say no without my body panicking? Your body always knows. Tight chest, shallow breath, urgency = people-pleasing. Open chest, grounded breath, calm clarity = kindness. ✨ The deeper truth Kindness includes yourself. People-pleasing excludes you. Kindness honours boundaries. People-pleasing avoids them. Kindness builds connection. People-pleasing builds resentment. You don’t need to become less kind to stop people-pleasing. You need to become more connected to yourself. And when kindness comes from that place, it heals - you and everyone around you.
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