If you’re here, chances are something in your life has shifted. Maybe you’re: - thinking about divorce - in the middle of it - recently on your own and learning to live a solo life (yes, there is a learning curve) - or just trying to figure out what comes next Whatever brought you here… you’re in the right place and you are so very welcome here. WHAT THIS SPACE IS This is a place to: - ask questions without feeling judged - get clear on what to do next - learn from other people going through similar situations - take one step at a time without getting overwhelmed You don’t have to have everything figured out to be here. It’s always helpful to know you are not alone. Not the only one. That’s what this community is for. To ask questions, share wins, worries and even the unpleasant parts. This is a safe place. We are here because we share a common problem. We don’t judge, we don’t criticize each other and we certainly do not bully. We are all human and subject to human frailties and mistakes. We are also adults and we all understand adult problems. This space is for both men and women. We all can learn different things from each other. Different perspectives. Different outcomes. We all can benefit from seeing things from both sides. WHAT THIS SPACE IS NOT This isn’t: - a place to bash or vent about your spouse in detail - a place to share identifying information that could come back on you - legal advice It’s a place to stay steady and make good decisions. It’s a place to ask questions, learn from others and share things you feel will help someone else in the group. We are in this together. A quick note about privacy Please: - don’t use names - this includes spouses, attorneys, judges, etc. - don’t share details that could identify you or someone else - remember, some spouses scour social media looking for evidence to use against the other. Don’t give them any ammunition here. - keep things general enough to protect yourself