“Maybe you and Carlos are overextending yourselves right now…”
A client said to me this week.
And I get it—perspective is everything.
Are we fitting a lot into a short amount of time?
Yes.
Is it emotional, exhausting, and intense?
Also yes.
But it’s also deeply aligned with what we teach—and how we live.
This is what ‘doing hard things’ looks like.
It’s not polished. It’s not perfect.
But it’s forward motion.
And that’s a choice we’ve made—again and again.
We’re navigating real loss.
We’re grieving.
And… we’re keeping our commitments.
This is how we live out the message we carry.
Our trip to Indiana and Ohio has been exactly right.
We’ve been with our people—clients, friends, those walking through their own transformation.
We hosted an event.
We taught on the Code of Creation.
We collaborated and heard powerful stories that affirmed the very truths we’ve studied and shared for years.
It’s breakthrough.
And it’s beautiful to witness.
Yesterday was Father’s Day.
And it wasn’t easy.
I don’t make a post, I avoided social media, I had to tune it out.
The check-ins, the “how are you doing?”, the “I don’t know how you’re doing it.”
so well-intentioned, but I almost had to dismiss them.
But we made it through… and actually found so much joy in the day.
Because when you’re on mission, there’s a strange space where grief and growth co-exist.
It’s exhausting.
It’s exhilarating.
And it’s worth it.
We see the fruit.
We see lives changing.
Relationships healing.
And families building sanctuaries of love, truth, and freedom.
We’re not overextending.
We’re pouring out from a place of purpose.
And that… gives us strength for the next step. 🫶🏽
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