Today’s Thoughts & Reflection
We all process differently.
And sometimes our way of “controlling what we can” isn’t actually helpful…
It’s not wanted. Not received well. Not needed in the way we hoped.
I’ve been on both sides of that—
Giving what I thought was supportive,
And realizing later… it might’ve felt like pressure.
And receiving someone else’s version of help that honestly felt like one more thing to manage.
But it’s real.
It’s human.
It’s part of how we survive when everything feels out of our control.
And it takes more grace and understanding than most of us are capable of on our hardest days.
Today, I’m in Indiana.
Away from the ranch.
Away from the daily reminders and decisions.
Having good conversations…
Spending time with clients who feel like family.
And helping clean out an RV to get it ready for sale.
Scrubbing. Organizing. Clearing space.
It doesn’t seem like much.
But it hit me today: this is forward motion.
This is healing in real-time.
And I needed to take a moment to recognize that.
Because sometimes the only thing we can do
is show up with our hands and our heart
and say yes to the moment right in front of us.
Today, I’m grateful—
That what I can control…
is actually a benefit. ❤️🩹
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