If you’ve ever tried to correct, explain, or “bring them back to reality”…
you’ve probably noticed:
It doesn’t work.
And often, it makes things worse.
Here’s why:
Dementia affects the brain’s ability to process logic and new information.
So when you argue or correct, it can feel to them like:
- You’re not listening
- You’re against them
- Something is wrong
Instead of focusing on accuracy, try shifting to connection:
“That sounds upsetting. Let’s figure it out together.”
You’re not agreeing.
You’re reducing distress.