Hello, my name is Jairo, I’m from Riverside, CA. I joined this group because Shelley invited me to, and I thought it could be a chance to help others. I struggled with low self esteem for years. The last few years I have worked at bettering my self. I have made great progress, and am finally in a place to receive good things in to my life. I’ve learned to be more optimistic, positive, and grateful for what I have. I would like someone to share my life with, but for now I am focusing on making my life better by focusing on myself. I have learned that you have to truly love yourself before you are capable of loving another person. I believe the right person is out there for me, but I am not taking actual steps to find that person, and am rather focusing on making myself a better person. The kind of person my future partner (whoever she may be) deserves. I am not opposed to taking steps to find her, but just know that I need to get myself right and help family first right now. My priorities are focusing on what I can control, and making my life better. Which includes helping family and friends. I guess I am here for advice or support. Regardless, if I am able to help someone, then that would be enough for me.