Apr 5 • 💬 General
You Were Flowing… Then You Glitched. Here’s Why
You ever just be in the zone?
Not overthinking, not trying, just being you... and it feels good.
You’re walking different. Talking smoother
You're not even aware of it… you just feel like that guy.
But then it happens.
You become aware that you’re vibing.
And the second you notice?
You try to keep it going...
Now you're watching yourself — tweaking how you sound, how you move, overthinking every micro-expression.
And boom:
That flow? Gone.
Confidence turns into cringey real fast.
Here’s why:
Trying to look confident is the fastest way to stop being confident.
Because the moment you try to keep up the act, you're no longer present You'e performing. You’re trying to look a certain way instead of just expressing how you feel.
People can smell that
You feel it too.
That’s why the same convo that felt smooth a minute ago suddenly feels awkward, tight, and unnatural.
So what’s the shift?
You stop asking:
“How do I look right now?”
And start asking:
“Why am I doing this?”
Confidence isn’t about acting a certain way
It's about doing things with clear intention.
Not to impress. Not to win approval.
But because it’s what feels aligned, honest, and real in the moment.
⚠️ You don’t need to “act cool.”
You just need to stop breaking flow by becoming self-conscious mid-moment.
Let the real you breathe.
Let him finish the conversation.
Let him move freely without “checking in” every 10 seconds like he’s on camera.
You already have the energy people want to be around.
But you kill it when you try to hold onto it instead of letting it flow through you.
How often does this happen to you?
And what do you think would help you stop glitching out the moment you start to feel confident?
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You Were Flowing… Then You Glitched. Here’s Why
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