Apr 6 • 💬 General
They’re Not Using It Against You...You ARE!
You think people are judging your awkward smile.
Your quiet voice.
Your weird laugh.
Your acne, height, weight, or how you say certain words.
But here’s the truth most guys never hear...
No one can use it against you…unless you react like it’s something to be ashamed of.
The second you flinch, over-explain, or get in your head—
They don’t even have to say anything.
They feel it.
And from that moment on, they treat you the way you’re already treating yourself:
Like there’s something wrong with you.
But here’s the real power move:
Owning your flaws doesn’t make you weak. It makes you magnetic AF.
That thing you’re scared people will notice?
Bring it up first.
Say it with a smile.
Make it part of the story—not your cage.
Because the guys who are the most confident?
They’re not flawless.They’re just fkn unfazed.
They accept the parts of themselves they used to hide.
And in doing that, they take away everyone else’s power to shake them.
Stop trying to prove you’re perfect.
Start showing you’re unbothered.
That’s how quiet, overthinking, “not good enough” guys become unforgettable...
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They’re Not Using It Against You...You ARE!
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