Stop Saying Your Kids 'That's nice!'
When your child proudly shows you a drawing, a Lego tower, or a funny little invention… your instinct is to smile and say: 👉 “That’s nice!” 👉 “Good job!” But here’s the problem: Those words, though well-meaning, train kids to look for external validation instead of building internal motivation. Every time we say “good” or “nice” — we close the loop. The child thinks: ➡️ “Was it good enough for mom/dad?” Instead of: ➡️ “Am I proud of what I created?” And that small difference is HUGE. Because creativity and imagination thrive on self-expression, not approval. 🌟 What to Say Instead Next time your child shows you something, try: - “How do you feel about it?” - “What part do you like most?” - “What made you think of this idea?” - “Are you happy with what you created?” These questions shift the focus from your judgment to their reflection. They encourage kids to: ✔️ Think about their own process ✔️ Take ownership of their creativity ✔️ Learn that the value of art or ideas comes from within, not the outside world ✨ Why This Matters for Imagination If kids grow up always chasing gold stars and “good jobs” … they stop taking risks. But when they learn to trust their own joy in creating, they grow bold, imaginative, and self-driven. And in the AI age, this is everything. Machines can replicate skill. But only humans with confidence in their imagination can create new worlds, new ideas, and new futures. 💡 So the next time your child shows you their messy, magical creation — don’t rate it. Ask about it. Let them feel the power of their own imagination. ab If you think today's article means even a little to you, support me by spreading the word. Copy this link and send somebody who you feel will be happy knowing it - I think it will help you to rise a visionary kid, click the link and join: https://www.skool.com/co-trade-5675/about?ref=4733d93f5133455daa52c00f9fae1a6a