I saw this youtube video on DMT. It talked about how the drug would ban people from using it. If "it " (The entities) felt it (the sacred medicine) was being used for recreational or non wholesome reason they would ban you. Also, as I leaned they don't like it when you show up drunk off your ass. Check out the video link below. And for the love of God comment if this article resonates. Let's build a community. Out of the Trees It was early summer in Florida, and I was there on business. The air felt thick the way it only does in Florida, like you could wear it instead of breathe it. Even in the evening there was heat radiating off the pavement, palm trees standing still against a violet sky, the whole state seeming to hum with mosquitoes, neon, and bad decisions. I had flown in to see a client in Jacksonville, the kind of guys who liked to work hard during the day and then spend the night proving to themselves they were still wild. They were heavy partiers, old-school in their appetite, and I spent a couple of days with them doing business by daylight and drifting into long, lubricated nights after dark. I had always been what people politely call a heavy drinker. Not the kind of drinker who needed a reason. If anything, I needed a reason not to drink. Drinking had a way of making life feel briefly possible. It softened the edges, dimmed the static, made me feel less trapped inside myself. For a few hours, the world seemed more open, more forgiving. Or maybe I just became less aware of the cage. By the time I finished with the client in Jacksonville, I had an idea. Since I was already in Florida, I’d drive down and see an old friend in St. Petersburg, a guy I hadn’t seen in years. Let’s call him Brian. We’d been through enough life together that I could already imagine the tone of the reunion: good stories, easy laughs, a few drinks that would become too many. Brian was dating a woman I hadn’t met yet, and the three of us agreed to meet up that evening. St. Petersburg had that loose coastal feeling to it, breezy and bohemian, the kind of place where every bar seems to have a patio and every patio seems to promise one more round. It was one of those evenings where the sky stayed bright longer than it should have, the light lingering over the buildings while the streets filled with people who looked like they had nowhere urgent to be.

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The recovery community is divided. Old school recovery vs New school recovery / Sober Curious? Huge amounts of Hate. Rightfully so. Here we go. There is a war brewing in the world of recovery. On one side, you have old school recovery. Twelve step programs, lifelong abstinence, one day at a time philosophy. 12-step advocates, meeting-goers and the analog recovery community. On the other side you have new school recovery and the sober curious community. Asking questions, challenging the norms, attempting to redefine what recovery means. Holy monoculture on the battlefield brothers and sisters, we’re going to need a bigger tent. If you’ve spent anytime talking to people in recovery you know this fight can get bloody. Traditional twelve step recovery is not a fad, it is not going anywhere, and it has helped millions of people. I am forever grateful for what 12-step programs gave me. I love my meetings and my fellowship. But twelve step recovery can be black and white, non-critical and rigid. Either you follow the program, identify as an alcoholic/addict and abstain for life, or you don’t. Sober curious is curious about why you drink. It asks you to question your motivations and beliefs surrounding alcohol. It invites you to wake up one day and just…look at alcohol critically. Maybe even skeptically. It asks you to dig deep into your conditioning, trauma, and mental health to begin to ask yourself, who am I drinking for? What the fuck am I doing? Clinical goldmine. Sober curious people are actively rejecting the idea that wellness, mental health, and freedom from substances can only be achieved by abstinence, by working the steps, by labeling yourself. This scares the shit out of old-recovery. How can we “fixed” addicts be anything other than drunk? How can we meet people where they’re at if we can’t force them into our box? I have gotten hate from both sides. Told I wasn’t “sober enough” by old school recovery. Told I wasn’t “trying” or “doing it right” by sober curious people. If we can come together for ONE UNIVERSAL idea, it’s that progress is progress no matter how you slice it.

Over the past decade, a quiet but powerful cultural shift has been taking place. More people are questioning the role alcohol plays in their lives—not because they identify as having a drinking problem, but because they’re curious about what life might look and feel like without it. This growing lifestyle movement is known as Sober Curious. Unlike traditional sobriety, which is often rooted in recovery, the sober curious mindset is rooted in exploration. It asks a simple but profound question: “What would change if I drank less—or not at all?” What Does “Sober Curious” Actually Mean? Being sober curious isn’t about rigid rules or lifelong abstinence. It’s about awareness and intentionality. At its core, sober curious living means: - Questioning why you drink - Observing how alcohol affects your body and mind - Choosing when (or if) alcohol serves your life - Removing autopilot drinking habits It shifts the narrative from restriction to empowerment. Instead of “I can’t drink,” the mindset becomes:“I don’t have to drink.” Why the Movement Is Growing Several cultural and wellness trends have fueled the rise of sober curiosity: 1. Health Optimization Modern wellness culture prioritizes sleep, mental clarity, gut health, and longevity. Alcohol directly impacts all four. People report improvements in: - Deep sleep cycles - Energy levels - Skin clarity - Hormonal balance - Weight management Even moderate drinking can disrupt REM sleep and increase inflammation—two key drivers of aging and fatigue. 2. Mental Health Awareness Alcohol is a depressant, yet it’s often used to manage stress and anxiety. The sober curious movement encourages people to examine: - Does alcohol reduce anxiety—or amplify it later? - Does it help connection—or numb emotion? - Is it relief—or avoidance? Many discover that removing alcohol improves emotional regulation, resilience, and mood stability. 3. Productivity & Performance Entrepreneurs, creatives, and high performers are increasingly alcohol-conscious.

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