Affirmations have been gaining a lot of attention in the past few years; even Snoop Dogg has released his own affirmation song (and yes, it’s worth a listen if you haven’t heard it yet). But what makes this simple daily practice so powerful? At its core, saying affirmations involves speaking positive words or phrases out loud. When we do this, our brain processes these words as external stimuli. This sets off a chain reaction: our facial micro-expressions subtly respond, sending feedback to the brain, which then influences our how physiologically respond. In short, positive language can trigger the release of feel-good chemicals like dopamine and serotonin. Over time, repeating affirmations helps reinforce positive thought patterns. This has a physiological effect too, it strengthens our connection to the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for rational thinking and emotional regulation. At the same time, it helps calm the sympathetic nervous system, which is activated during stress or fear. A simple phrase like “I am safe” can shift us out of a fight/flight/freeze/fawn response and into a more balanced state, both mentally and physically, this can be such a game changer for dysregulated children! If you’re curious, try starting with just a few affirmations each morning or evening. It may feel strange at first, but with consistency, you might be surprised by the impact such a small habit can have on your thought patterns and self esteem. I started using affirmations in our bedtime routine and it’s quickly become part of the evening we all look forward to the most! It not only helps children build a positive self image and connect to their rational brain, but it also supports the bond between caregiver and child. Check out the video to hear it in action. Fancy giving it a go? Start with 3-5 short phrases everyday this weekend and check back in on Monday to let me know how it went 💛