It was a roller coaster week for me. A work situation tested ALL my boundaries. I survived it. I am stronger for it. Stress has been lifted from me.
AND I realized I checked a bunch of my bingo boxes!!!
Card #3 actions completed:
Ask for clarification- Once I did it was the perfect doorway to be able to say, "This isn't the job I accepted, and isn't the job I want."
Grounding Practice- I saw a review of myself before it was shared with me. My initial reaction was pack my stuff and go. By grounding and taking a couple days to really think about what I was able to go into the review with a level head, clear thoughts, and able to listen to my body and act from a place of what was best for me. Not just my ego. I get this is not typically what would happen. But it was proof to me that my initial instincts are to be hot headed.
Say what you mean without apologizing- I was 100% honest with my comments. If it meant I left without a job, I was prepared to figure it out. I tried to preface then with "to me it looks like- feels like-etc" so it wasn't accusing someone else. I GET to have opinions. If they land hurtful to someone else that's a measure of the meaning they are placing on themselves.
Lastly...
I'm celebrating a win. This week has been a long time coming!