I was just speaking with a Funeral home at work and we were discussing how nasty people can be together other when a passing occurs and we were talking about our confusion by that because we just want people to be kind. He told me "Honey listen, I broke it down like this recently. I can choose peace or I can choose war. War is not always violence, war can be words or nasty actions too. And I choose peace"
We all know I value kindness but that simple twist of the words hit home even more!!! Not only will i choose kindness but I choose peace, peace for me and peace for the person I refuse to go to war with. I really liked that new way of looking at it and wanted to share:-)