Why do we tell infants, "You're ok" when they are crying? Behavior and crying are how nonverbal children communicate. A crying child is communicating.
I feel that many infant caregivers are speaking to themselves when they respond, "you're ok" to a crying child. I get it, taking care of infants can be overwhelming at times, especially with multiple children. But it is never ok to dismiss a child's emotions or need.
Perhaps the overwhelmed infant caregiver could say "I'm ok" instead. Pause, breathe, and say "I'm ok."
Teachers and parents, you are ok! You are doing your very best. I see you. I hear you. I am you.
I see this topic evolving into a workshop. Stay tuned